I wouldn’t worry - babies must be so boring for them! We have the opposite - our 1st won’t stop kissing the baby, putting blankets on him, wanting to hold him. Literally can’t win!! As we need to constantly watch him! It will settle in time and they will be best buddies. Keep doing what you are doing and I bet it will just click!
My October 22 baby has only recently just started acknowledging his brother sometimes and his little bro is 1 😂 he couldn’t stand him at first but he’s slowly getting better. I never force it and I’ve let him go at his own pace and he tolerates him a lot more now. I’m hoping they become besties soon!
I imagine babies are not that interesting to them while they’re small and can’t really ‘play’ yet. I’m sure things will change once baby can move around a bit more. My son usually gives babies a long stare and moves on cause they’re not doing anything.
You’re lucky! Mine was literally a menace to his younger sibling . I HAD to involve him with EVERYTHING, to prevent meltdowns. He wasn’t even 3 years old when he got angry and shouted at me that I don’t love him, I only love daddy and his brother 💔 I wouldn’t force it or involve him if he doesn’t want to be. Maybe occasionally say “Ollie told me he’s so lucky to have you as a brother” or some other lovely phrases, these seemed to work well for me. 😅 sounds like you’re doing a great job though 💪 x
Following as we’re about to have our second and would kind the same advice 👀