Relationship issues
Okay so I need yall to tell me how you would handle this. So I work I take care of a 98 double amputee lady, she's been sick these last couple of days well I only work 2 hours a night, well my fiance today said he had work but would be back before I had to go to work, well I find out he wasn't at work and he didn't come home in time for me to go to work, so at this point I'm pissed I'm supposed to be there at 6pm and it's going on 730 he says oh well I have a job I have to go to and you cussed at me and told me not to come home, so I had to call a friend to come watch my toddler, I didn't get there till 8ish and this lady relys on me, my fiance didn't give 2 shits .... I'm so upset /pissed, he wasn't even working he was sitting at his friend's house dicking arounf while I'm sitting at home freaking out about getting to work on time, he took voice recordings of me cussing him out tried saying he didn't wanna come home to that, and yes I flipped out beacuse I was so upset. I honestly wanna end it beacuse he's getting worse and worse with lying to me... I need advice!
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Do NOT marry this man unless you want to subject yourself to this until one of you files for divorce... The inevitable is coming, it's up to you how long you put up with behaviors like this.
He sounds like a right arsehole so selfish of him!
People want to blame the reaction but without their actions there would be no reaction. Sounds like his priorities are out of order. I would set some expectations and consequences and stick to them.
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I'm sorry you're here. That's a lot of immature thinking on his part. He needs to take care of his adult responsibilities (making sure his child is cared for and allowing you to work to support your family) before he runs off to play with his friends. He didn't tell you in advance (so you could make another plan) because he knows he's in the wrong. He'll lie to avoid confrontation and act badly to justify his bad behavior. It's so sad, but you can't trust him to do what he says he's going to do even when it comes to caring for your child. He's just not a reliable option. You're going to need to make a new plan... 😕❤️