Baby dad recent ex partner

My ex partner/ baby dad left me a week ago to we’ve had very little contact but many arguments, my ex is a vile human to be honest, so as much as I want him back I know he’s not good for me, is this guy really worth waiting around for girl? Xx

@Hannah my ex is the same he used to hurt me not bad but still would put his hands on me nearly daily we have been together four years and hes my first real relationship with a baby in the mix to its just so hard to let go when all i want is him

@Freya I know exactly how you feel I’ve been really struggling and feeling like he might be the only one that will love me and I wanted the perfect family, but the boy I was with only used me and didn’t really care for me so I’m just trying convince myself I’ll be happier without him xx

It’s hard in any type of relationship like this, you do hope they turn into a better person. But unfortunately 9 times out of 10 they do not change, I know it’s hard but you have to look out for your baby. Having the “perfect” family is not the goal, having a loving, caring family is. I have a feeling the good didn’t outweigh everything he did that was wrong. It isn’t your fault for wanting what could have been. A women’s shelter can help you get therapy, not saying you need it. But maybe that would help sort out your feelings with someone trusting and who is looking out for you and your baby.

Me and my baby dad broke up 5 months ago, we still talk every day, FaceTime and sleep together, and that was from me still messaging , but not half as much, and only about our child x