Loss

Has anyone had a silent loss after or around 14 weeks? How did you find out?
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I had a 16-week loss in the past. I felt movement early and stopped feeling him/just felt like something was wrong( it was my 3rd loss), so I went in that day to get checked out. He no longer had a heartbeat when they put the ultrasound machine on.

@Cristal I’m so sorry ☹️ I’m 14 weeks now and I can’t keep feeling like paranoid anxious. I’m still not feeling movement yet so that’s not helping either. I’ve never experienced a loss but idk why I feel this way.

Thank you. It's natural to have some anxiety and keep in mind that consistent movement really doesn't start until mid-20 weeks. Just take it one day at a time. I had crippling anxiety with my daughter, and she is a healthy 18 month old. I've decided this time that I'm simply giving it to God, and i can't control what's going to happen in the end. You can always try at a home doppler,BUT they can also cause more anxiety because sometimes it's just hard to find the heartbeat on them. I'm sure all is fine. ❤️ Miscarriages are very rare at this stage.

@Cristal thank you. I really needed to hear this. You’re totally right about just letting God take control. I need to just take it easy. I have a healthy 4 year old. Healthy pregnancy. I don’t know why this crippling anxiety is just taking over.

Of course! My inbox is always open.:-)

Do you have a home Doppler? That has helped me with my anxiety

I've been feeling the same way. I have 2 healthy babies and had one miscarriage 10+yrs ago. This time I've been so anxious!

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