dirty talk advice

I had the same issue! And I felt really dumb saying the cliche dirty talk things and I felt like I'm just being a wanna be p star lmao. I think the key is to find something that feels natural to you and turns you on, otherwise don't force it and say stuff you think he wants to hear. The best lovers are the ones who genuinely enjoy it and are comfortable in their skin.

Dirty talk just doesn’t turn me on at all haha that’s my problem but i feel so bad when he asks for it and im just in middle of sex just stuck on what to say and then my rhythm stops and then im scrambling to find the words to say i just am soo lost

No I mean what type of things do YOU want to hear in bed? If anything. That's a good starting point

Like a common one is dominant/ Submissive talk. You can have him say something to dominate you and your response would be submissive

I dunno I feel like most guys I've had are terrible at leading the dirty talk and they think that a woman should just start on her own but out of context it feels so forced.. I have rarely found a guy who knows how to dirty talk himself but a lot of them ask for it! The irony lol

I found the easiest thing to say when you don’t know what to say is describing what’s going on like “i love when you xxx my xxx with your xxx” or “I don’t want you to stop xxxxx” and spice it up with different description words “big” “tight” “wet” etc.

Girl I totally get u, dirty talk doesn't turn me on, in fact it turns me off most times, so I don't really do it much either, and sometimes when I do I too feel like @Mary and like I'm trying to be a p star. But like u said the usual harder, faster, just like that, I've also said things like I love how my make out with my p, & slower let me feel every inch of ur c0#k. It's very simple and I'm sure to most people who love dirty talk and all that it's not dirty talk at all or very vanilla but it makes my man happy so hey. I don't do dirty talk so I do my best.😂

I only had good experiences with dirty talk when the guy knew how to do it and be dominant. I guess I'm too much of a sub..and the usual dirty talk like oh yeah xxx my xxx muahhhha is kinda boring to me. Maybe I just haven't read enough erotica 😋

@Raylene Hernandez yeah for sure I was ok with that as well but if the guy says talk dirty to me in the middle of sex I just get lost and don't know what to do

I just describe how my partner is making me feel, what I would like him to do to me, what I am going to do to him(that turns him on a lot)even if it’s about being descriptive with a blow job or something. I also will talk about my fantasises and describe them whilst we have sex and then we end up doing them. I think the important part is meeting each other halfway. You don’t have to say inappropriate words for dirty talk, you don’t have to act like a porn star, some men yes like that but maybe ask him for some examples. Does he want you to call him names during sex or does he just want you to be more descriptive and say things that you want to do to him to please him. Everyone is different so the only real answer you can get is from him, but maybe try different things out see how they feel and if it’s still not for you that’s okay. Perhaps you and your partner can compromise on things but it cannot be forced. If it’s not for you then it’s not for you. I used to hate dirty talk, it

Seemed too cringy and I hated saying stuff because it would make me laugh. But over time I’ve learnt to describe what I’m feeling and such, it makes it seem more real rather than the whole “oh my god you make me so wet” how about trying to instead tell him how he has made you so wet etc

wow these are such great tips girls, will deffo take these on board tonight ;) haha see how it goes maybe i’ll try the descriptive ones for sure @Dionne but again if he’s making me feel good with whatever he’s doing aside from syaing ‘ you make me feel good’ what else isit like a case of say what he’s doing and why i like it or soemthing like that?

You could in fact still say “you make me feel good” but maybe whisper it seductively in his ear. Sometimes the tone we use can be very helpful. You could also focus on body language so whilst you say that could stroke his arms or drag your nails on his back slowly. Sometimes also teasing can go hand in hand with dirty talk, because if you’re teasing one another you can naturally just ask questions like “do you like that?” “Do you want more?” And it’s easier because you can tease with words too and it can make it very sexy. “What else do you want me to do to you?” “What are you going to do to me?” both of you can ask and respond to those questions. And just tell him what you would honestly like him to do and vice versa. Also want to add dirty talk only works if he does it too. Over time it may become easier and feel more natural to do. But again if it isn’t for you then that’s okay

Personally I don’t like questions that require more than one word answers because it can become SUPER awkward if your spouse doesn’t hear you LOL. One time I asked him, “what do you want” and I couldn’t hear his response so I said, “what? Huh?” In the middle and that was a turn off 😂 So embarrassing but I literally moan like an animal. He brings it out in me. Others I have said are, “who owns this pu**y.” And you’ll know he will say “I do” or “me.” Same thing goes for “who f*cks me so good?” You’ll know his answer will be “me.” Or “look at what you do to me” as your cumming. It takes time but once you get some words out the rest will flow.

Here to follow for the comments cause same girl same. Someone help!! He told me that like I can repeat myself some but like think of new things too but keep going blank

I google dirty talk

@Alyson girl i fear that has happened to me too lool like how do you bounce back from that 😂 i just feel so cringe even uttering words like that lol but i have to think i guess im doing it for him more than for me i suppose

@Deanna Marie that’s prob a good idea, did you find any good ones?

Yes

@Liza got me blushing god damn girl I’m ganna use these 🤣☺️