@Leona sorry to hear your still feeling it two months on. Sending you love too! Get the aloneness part massively!
So sorry to hear this, I went through this last year, I took a whole month off to physically get over it and more so mentally. I still struggled for a while and even now still have days where I grieve the loss of my baby and tube. I also had a 2 year old at the time so I feel you. I just told her I was poorly and she then gave me cuddles rather than needing to pick her up xx
This is soo tough 😢. I took off 2 weeks but my first miscarriage I took 4 weeks. Take as much time as needed it’s a physically and emotionally draining you need time to recover.
Sorry you’re going through this! I had surgery a month ago and only went back to work this week. I’m currently just wfh and will go into the office when I’m mentally ready. Take it easy is what I would say for recovery. Don’t rush to get back to normal 🤍
Asked heal baby care app and sharing in case it helps: "I'm truly sorry to hear about your loss and the challenges you're facing during your recovery. It's important to prioritize your healing, both physically and emotionally. Generally, after surgery for an ectopic pregnancy, you might need at least a week or two off work, but this can vary based on how you're feeling and your doctor's advice. In terms of recovery, focus on getting plenty of rest, staying hydrated, and eating nutritious foods to support your healing. If possible, consider arranging for help with your two-year-old, whether it's from family or friends, to allow you some time to rest without the added physical demands. How are you feeling emotionally, and do you have support from family or friends during this time?"
Went through this exact thing. Sending love, easier said than done but rest assured much as possible. I am post 2 months and it’s still raw! Personally I took two weeks off and worked from home for a further week. Here if you want to ask any questions though as I felt super alone when going through it🫶🏼