Fomo baby sleep

How are you all getting your babies to sleep if they constantly fight it?? My little girl is 4 weeks old and my whole day today has been trying to get her to take a nap. It’s literally taking 1.5 to 2 hours to get her to finally stop fighting it. She’s had two contact naps on me, the longest one being this morning at 2.5 hours because she’d been up with my boyfriend every 20 mins from 3am. She’s knackered right now, she’ll drop off for 10 mins and then start fidgeting, waking herself up and be soooo grouchy. At a loss at what to do!
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Are you breastfeeding? My baby is 6 weeks tomorrow and I had a stage of this a few weeks ago but she's got abit better now but I'm breastfeeding and it just felt like she was feeding 24/7 x

@Laura she’s formula fed so what we are dealing with is it taking 2 hours to get her to sleep and then it basically being time for her to have a feed again 😭

Is she suffering with reflux/colic making it hard to settle? X

How many ml does she have at every feed?

If you think she’s overtired/overstimulated, it might be worth trying some skin to skin in a dark room to help her relax. Or even a bath? Otherwise she might just not need to sleep as much in the day. It can be common for them to be awake a lot. My little one was awake pretty much all day today apart from a couple of 2 hour naps, she settled about an hour ago x

@Laura i definitely think she’s got a bit of silent reflux but we swapped formulas and that seems to have improved a bit. It now seems to be the straining for a poo that’s frustrating her, she’s not constipated because the stool is normal but she spends a lot of the day trying to poo and then does a few big ones towards the end of the day. She’s just gotta figure it all out

@Sarah it can vary but generally she’s having 100-150ml every 2-3 hours

@Christie she gets so stressed getting undressed that having a bath atm is not the greatest experience but we are going to keep trying it every few days to try and get a positive connection with them. She’s definitely tired because she yawns her head off so we are just gonna have to keep trying different ways to get her to sleep

I have no advice but we are in the same boat - it takes us 3 hours to get her to sleep every night and another 3 hours to get her to sleep in the morning, for example she has now been awake from 4 and still fighting sleep. Happy to chat if you ever need a moan moment because it is very hard!

Also experiencing the same and it’s Completley new to me as my older boy used to drink a bottle and sleep or nap in the pram if I went for a walk! My little girl fights every nap/ won’t nap in the pram and I’m resorting to the carrier but that still doesn’t always work! It’s so frustrating and really gets me down (especially as I have a toddler who wants my attention and when it’s gone on for hours!) Wish I had a magic solution for you- but genuinely I use the carrier, white noise, attempt a dummy (but she’s breastfed and not keen) and walk/ bounce etc.

My girl was like this to begin with and I can’t recommend Muslin swaddling enough! It stops her startle reflex which was waking her and she can now sleep 6 hours (and more if I was to let her) without waking 90% of the time :)

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