I’m not mad about this but 🤦🏻‍♀️

I want to be clear, this is not to bash my husband and is not weaponized incompetence, he’s just a human with ADHD. I just can’t 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ in front of him because it feels mean. Today is our 5yo’s birthday and my husband posted a happy birthday message on social media with a reel of pictures and videos and a sweet message. I start watching the reel and there are several pictures that obviously should not be shared, a couple that she’s not wearing pants, and one video with me in a robe showing serious cleavage. I asked him about it and he admitted that HE DIDN’T WATCH THE WHOLE THING BEFORE POSTING IT🤦🏻‍♀️ Then, after work, I’m reading the actual message he wrote and I realize that it’s AI written from the POV of a person who is not the parent. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ Then to top it off, his aunt comments reminding us about an upcoming memorial she wants us at 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️
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That’s crazy that he would use AI to write a birthday wish for his own kid. Is his English bad? Was it possible he was using it to help improve his grammar and it went wrong?

I mean I have ADHD, but I also know better. Did he use AI? Or was it something his iPhone did? My iPhone tends to make reels of photos in my gallery that are closely related to each other. Good for him to admit he shared without watching it. We all make mistakes lol.

Lol all I can say is...😩 That's such a man thing to do! 😩🤦🏼‍♀️

@Gal I don’t think it’s that crazy because the message isn’t actually to her. She’s 5 and can’t read yet LOL. The message was for all the family and loved ones who don’t know when her birthday is without this reminder. It was just written as if it was to her. It makes sense to me that he would use AI to edit it so it sounds good. He just didn’t pay attention to what was generated, hence the 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

@Katie that’s it! He just didn’t know better, which is why I’m sitting here with this face lol.

Why do you care so much about whether he put thought into his message or not?? it’s his social media and his daughter to. Does it really matter? if the pictures are inappropriate tell him to take it down if it bothers you. He obviously loves his daughter, i don’t think he needs to prove that to you by putting extra effort in posting on his social media.

@Amna okay crazy pants! That’s not what she was saying at all.

@Amna I don’t care so much, that’s what I’m saying. I’m more laughing at it but don’t want to laugh at him because obviously he cares and it might hurt his feelings. I also figured a bunch of moms would get that feeling

If I had a pound for every time I needed to vent about what my husband did because of his adhd I think I’d be a millionaire. Honestly it’s just the lack of thought process because he’s so busy going off on 57 tangents. I feel your pain!

I laughed so hard at this post because honestly my man would do the same and I envisioned myself face palming as if I was reading his post while reading this😂 that being said I do completely think it was inappropriate of his aunt to comment reminding you of a memorial, there’s a time and place and a post wishing your daughter a happy birthday is not it! A private message would have been much better

Oh my god that’s not adhd that’s just a man🥲

@Jade I agree, I think his aunt’s reminder was weird, they literally spoke on the phone last week and she could have talked about it then. It was just funny how that post ended up being such a shit show in every way 😆

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