Should i cancel or just host?
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Please leave him, you deserve so much better
Uhm he’s hurt you by emotionally and verbally abusing you?? Tf I couldn’t imagine if my husband called me a lazy cunt. Hell to the no. Leave his ass. Gross. wtf
Why don’t you go out for dinner with your family and leave husband at home, he’s no good for your mental health he’s emotionally abusing you. Leave him at home to sulk
Can one of your family members host and you still cook? Leave him home and tell them why. Be honest about you’re being treated and lean on your family for support and accountability. Sounds like you may have planned your own intervention without knowing it.
Host or ask your family to go out for dinner, and speak to them. They will help and support you, and it will make you feel better even to just talk about something else And please leave this man, I m pretty sure I see what posts you made before and that’s scary to me. You deserve so much more, you deserve happiness
I think it’s crazy how ur trying to convince urself that “he hasn’t hurt u” just because he hasn’t hit u! Cuz I think u don’t know what emotional abuse! abuse comes in many forms so please don’t tolerate his anger issues just becuase he hasn’t been physical with u. The fact is ur in an abusive relationship. I would invite ur family and tell them exactly what is going on with ur Husband. The reason why he is abusing u is because ur excusing his behaviour & saying that he has trauma etc. not to sound rude bt who cares! lots of us have trauma bt we are not abusive ppl. He needs to heal from his trauma without u being his emotional punching bag. Abusers need a mirror to help up to them, they need to be shamed. Maybe once ur family comes over and u tell them exactly what ur Husband says to u, they will help u leave his sorry ass. U deserve better mama. X please don’t cancel the get together, communicate to ur family what is going on in ur marriage so they can help u
Not worth the stress. Go out for dinner with your family and enjoy it. Leave him at home.
Another vote for going out with your family. You need to be around people who love and support you right now, you deserve happiness. Husband can absolutely get fucked, he doesn't deserve you at all. If you feel comfortable, please let your family know what's going on. Even just your sister. Confiding in someone will help. Only you can make the decision to end things but you absolutely don't deserve to be treated the way he's treating you!
Girl, sending you a hug! We know he will apologize before tomorrow because he will feel bad and they always do.. so pull the trigger on a decision today. You deserve better!
Don’t cancel, enjoy the time with your family. It might even take your mind off things for a bit. The way he treats you isn’t right. If you feel like you want to leave then go with your gut.
Verbal and mental abuse is still abuse, and you’re wrong in saying he has never hurt you 😞 Im sorry you have to be dealing with this. I would personally host a dinner for my family but tell him to make his own plans and be out of the house as I wouldn’t want him anywhere near me
He may be trying to seclude you. Do not let him treat you like poo
Leave him hunny. He sounds so toxic and you could have so much better by leaving him such as peace, not feeling like you have to tip toe around him. Host that gathering. You deserve it. Don’t let him make you think that you don’t.
Honey you need to know that you aren’t stupid and you don’t deserve to be spoken to in this manner by ANYONE but ESPECIALLY not your partner. This is verbal and emotional abuse plain and simple. Doesn’t matter that he “doesn’t hit you”…psychological harm is just as damaging and leaves invisible scars. Please consider seeking help from your support system (family/friends/community resources), and LEAVE THIS JERK.
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Go out for dinner with your family whilst he packs his bags because that’s a hell noooo imagine what else he’s capable of after talking to you like this if he had an ounce of respect for you he wouldn’t behave in this manner. Know your worth girl pick yourself up and dust him off you got this 🫶🏻
Never ever allow a man to dictate when you’re allowed to see your loved ones
This is big time emotional abuse. Calling you names, saying you don’t deserve nice things, inviting your parents then telling you to cancel on your family entirely , all of it. He is hurting you. Reach out to your family and tell them what’s going on , ask for support .
I agree with a few others on here, this is emotional abuse and you should seek advice/support. Also, I would go out with my family and leave him at home. Could you maybe pack a bag and go stay with family for a few days to cool off/get some space?
If my husband regularly called me a lazy c*** he would be long gone fuck that shit! Absolutely no respect for you "the women he loves" I hope you host and your family see what an arsehole he is and help you through the process
@Kayleigh I agree with this go out to dinner without him. Also he’s emotionally abusive I hope u leave him
Pack his bags, tell him to leave, have your family over.
Don’t cancel just because he told you to. You do deserve nice things and he has no right to stop you from seeing your family. If you can leave, I would leave. You don’t deserve this and it sounds like he isn’t going to change his behaviour. I’m really sorry this is how he’s treating you 😞