Moms what would you do?!!

13 yo girl school principal called her mom & told her that her daughter might get suspended..mom say why what happened..principal says well in gym class, there was a game that was being played & a boy got your daughter out..then a new game started & your daughter got the same boy out..the boy got mad & spit at your daughter..your daughter told him don’t spit at me & the boy did it again..your daughter then punched the boy….

Let’s talk about it! What would you do in this situation???

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Standing 10 toes down with my daughter ! N I hope we having a meeting with his parents

To spit at someone is hella degrading and kid has some major issues probably reflecting from crap parenting at home as well. But definitely what Day said, I tell my kids to avoid altercations but when needed and provoked I/dad will never be mad or upset about any of it especially if they tried to avoid it the first time around. Had it been the other way around I can almost guarantee boys parent/s would be upset about it as well and cause all kinds of hell. Don’t let these teachers or principals try to scare or intimidate you with BS suspension because I sure would be demanding a sit down with the parents and even then schools don’t actually want that happening so I’d be demanding the boy get suspended because why should your daughter have to face consequences for standing up for herself, also request that this be recorded in case further issues keep occurring and you can always reach out to the superintendents which usually gets schools/principals taking action.

We have had way too many encounters that should have been avoided or better handled when it comes to these types of situations and dealing with bullies. We learned speaking up for our kids and not letting shit slide was the best for us in any situation so things like this don’t happen again and the right party gets the appropriate action or consequences.

Preach!!!!! I couldn't had said that better myself !!!!

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Break ups with a baby

I feel absolutely broken writing this, I never planned this for my life. I have the most beautiful 8 month old boy, my whole entire world.

I am an ex drug addict for many years and spent so many years in toxic friendships/relationships surrounded by so much evil, unable to look after myself and wanting to die multiple times. I am now 3 years clean, and have the most perfect blessing to throw every fibre of my being into, and I do and now I’m about to tear his whole world apart.

My partner never ever puts his first, he owns his own business and I work for him - he still gives me full wage to be a stay at home mum to raise our beautiful boy. However, being in his position he gets a lot of free time, and instead of spending it with us which you’d assume most parents would want to if they have the opportunity, he chooses to spend it all at the golf course or pub drinking for hours, and wonders why I’ve pulled away and don’t prioritise him anymore and pick fights all the time? He blames me for us falling apart but I’ve done my best to balance everything and it’s still not good enough.

I work for him and now have to find another place to live in 3 weeks as we were due to move house due to our landlord selling our house, now I’m stuck. No job, no money and no home. I can move to my mums temporarily but what do I do with my baby? I don’t want to put him in nursery yet. I’ve held onto a loveless relationship for soooooo long because I want to be a family and don’t want to have days where he has to go to his dads and I don’t get to see him, I don’t want anyone else looking after him without me including his father, he’s a good dad when he’s actually around but when I’m there I’m just the babysitter. I feel absolutely lost for words, I wanted a family for so many years and never thought I’d come close, and now I do and it’s all fallen apart

Am I wrong?

So I invited my mom to my sons birthday party in October 2024, (I lived in Santa Antonio at the time) she said she could drive the 4 hr. However she drove 18 hr to Oklahoma to visit my brother, her (baby boy). She rented a car and drove there. But somehow I don't have a right to be extremely mad!! AM I WRONG????

Father’s Day help!

So my 1st Mother’s Day SUCKED I was sick as a dog with walking pneumonia we didn’t get to do anything I planned for or asked if we could do cause I hardly had any strength to even lift my head. However, my boyfriend did try. He made coffee and breakfast in bed and had 3 little gifts for me. He tried his best and that’s all I could ask for because I know some of my friends didn’t get anything for Mother’s Day no flowers, no card, no nothing. But now hitting a dead end on what to get my boyfriend for Father’s Day. Every time I ask him, he gives me the classic man reaponse “don’t get me anything. I don’t deserve anything” But I’m not gonna get him NOTHING. But just seems cruel because he tried when I was sick as a dog on Mother’s Day. I have a few ideas on the poll below. Please help a mama out! It’s his first Father’s Day and I want to do something special!

Am I overreacting?

My partner and I have just had our baby girl, my 1st his 3rd. I don’t feel like he is very interested in our baby and I often have to ask for him to do things or even pick her up when she cries. He is on his phone a lot and he doesn’t pick up on her cues for being tired. I have mentioned to him already that he needs to be more involved, when I walk in he will start playing with her but I can see from a distance he’s just holding her whilst on his phone. I’m worried if I keep saying stuff he will resent being with baby even more as I have mentioned it a couple of times now. Baby is now 3 months old. I just don’t know if this is a man thing or he’s just not interested. Advice needed please.

I am so sick of the know it all moms on here giving advice to toddler moms when they have an infant.

If you haven't raised a toddler, do not come in all holier than thou giving advice and judgment to toddler moms when you baby is like 5 months old.

Weird question

Do you find the gusset in most underwear is too far back? 😅

With all the underwear I own, when putting on a panty liner I have to put it higher up than the gusset for it to be in the “correct” spot.

Is this a regular problem for others or is my anatomy wonky? 🤣