Struggling

Hi everyone, I’m really struggling at the moment. My ex and I split up about 8 weeks ago, when it happened I felt a weight had been lifted but now I miss him. Any suggestions on getting over this would be really appreciated - please tell me it gets easier?

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I’m sorry you’re struggling. I’m not sure this helps but I’m currently 13w pregnant and my partner broke up with me last month and has told me he is already dating someone new and wants no further communication with me unless it’s a baby update.

The struggle is real everyday but the friends that I’ve told have really showed up for me

@Claudia oh my goodness, I’m so sorry to hear that! How are you doing?

There’s no third party involvement here, just that our relationship had become something that wasn’t nice. Looking back, I think there was miscommunication over what we wanted that has led to us thinking that the other person ended it. He’s told me he’s having counselling so it sounds like he’s finding things hard too.

I think miscommunication is always the big thing at play. Good to hear he is seeking therapy, definitely stay strong and remember the reasons why it ended. Which is what I’m trying to do.

If you end up repairing things you’ll be even stronger and if not then that strength will still stay with you x

@Claudia Thank you, I’m trying to do that! Hope things with you work themselves out how you want x

I’ve made a list of every awful thing he’s ever said or done, it reminds me in my moments of weakness x

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