Does anyone else hate this ?
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@San but that’s the thing I don’t want to always be the one to initiate. And she doesn’t have kids. She won’t text me first unless she needs something.
I have experienced the same thing since being on here for maybe a month. But just messaging on the app. Like I have had at least 5 or 6 good conversations with 5 or 6 women and then out of nowhere they stopped messaging me back. I just assume I am the issue. Maybe im not as likable as I thought🤷♀️ Or maybe its not personal, and we just don't know whats going on for them in their lives.
@Dana same for me
I will send positivity and prayers your way! I don’t have any advice here but your feelings are valid. We all go thru this! I go thru it and there’s times I don’t even try but don’t mind if they try to reach out. There’s a girl on Snapchat who always sends me a snap everyday at 6am for the past almost 2years but she doesn’t talk. She’s not a talker but we have a streak. I do wish she would have a convo but it’s ok if she doesn’t I got used to it.
I get this I really need a legit friend, but everyone I have talked too on here or tried too be friend with don’t respond and it sucks because this app is meant too make friends I’m a stay at home mom of 4 I have nobody too talk too or even hangout with my fiancé is in the oilfield working long hours so he’s hardly ever home I just need friends man… it gets lonely not having friends and having a social life. 😭
Then may be she’s not for you. And that’s ok.
I feel like I am that girl… and like I’m sorry but it hard as a mom. Idk what else to say. I am terrible as keeping up with anything personally because I get overwhelmed easily. Everyone deal with life differently babe. Bring it up to her next time and ask if she prefer you initiate.