Feeling down

Ugh my partner and I just argued over house chores and pulling weight and being wasteful. A little backstory: two days ago we went grocery shopping and bought a whole bunch of fruit and meat and when we got home that night I started to get our 5mo old his bath and bedtime routine. When I was done and finally got baby to sleep I went to the living room and my man had put all the groceries away and did the dishes from the dinner I had cooked before we left. I told him how grateful I was cuz I’m so tired. Mind you we have a 5 almost 6 month old and I’m 7 weeks pregnant with debilitating nausea. Anyway he was about to take the fruit out to wash it and the meat out to separate and freeze it but I told him I would do it tomorrow and Cole sit and rest and hang out with me. He agreed and we had a good time hanging out. Fast forward my 5 mo old is teething and super clingy so I didn’t wash the fruit or freeze the meat yesterday so when my husband got home from work today he had to do it. He then stated that he feels like I’m being wasteful and I tried to explain I didn’t feel like I could do much yesterday because I felt sick all day and our kiddo was super clingy. He then claimed that I never do anything and need to pull weight at home if he has to pull all the financial weight. So now I’m just feeling down like he doesn’t think I do enough and that because he makes all the money that I need to be the 50s stay at home wife (which I was not raised to be so all of this is VERY new to me). Idk I guess I’m just seeking validation or something. Or just needed to rant, if u made it this far umm thank you lol. Guess I’m just feeling lazy but it feels so hard to even wake up sometimes.