5. Sleep and Alertness Is her refusal to nap connected to her feeding refusal? Could this be linked to a developmental leap or neurological issue? 6. Further Testing Should we do bloodwork or a full oral exam to rule out infection or nutritional deficiency? Can you refer us to a pediatric feeding specialist or lactation consultant? 7. Follow-Up Plan What warning signs should I look for in the next 48 hours? When should we come back if there’s no improvement? Tips for the Appointment: Bring a feeding and diaper log (how much she ate, when, and how many wet/dirty diapers). Take a recent photo showing her weight difference if it helps the doctor visualize. Be firm: “I’m very worried. I need someone to take this seriously. She’s losing weight and not feeding.”
I switched clinics because my son’s pediatrician was not taking me serious while also trying to fear monger me. You can always take your baby elsewhere.
Now I only have one child but I rather be safe then sorry
Thank you so much @Anayia You really helped break this down for me. Because honestly the GP I went to see just didn’t bother with my concerns and went straight to prescribing tablet for thrush.
Yeah no when it comes to our babies it’s better to be safe than sorry. Asking these questions force doctors to actually take a minute to recognize that this is a parent who is not easily deterred and took the TIME to make sure to ask the questions that require them to do the actual work
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Get another opinion mama. Here’s a list of questions you should ask. 1. Feeding Concerns What could be causing my 4-month-old to suddenly refuse both breast and bottle? Could this be due to oral thrush even if her tongue appears clean? Can we rule out tongue tie or lip tie? Should we check for any pain or discomfort while swallowing? 2. Weight Loss & Growth How much weight has she lost and is this considered dangerous? What steps can we take now to help her gain weight safely? Do we need to supplement with pumped milk using a syringe, spoon, or cup? 3. Teething Possibility Could this be early teething at 4 months, and can it cause refusal to eat like this? What are safe teething remedies or techniques that can help her feed better? 4. Reflux or Gastro Issues Could she be experiencing silent reflux or digestive issues that make feeding uncomfortable? Should we try an antacid or reflux medication to see if it helps her feed?