Why do men get so upset when you say no to sex?

Jesus this is not ok

Man child

Men don’t get upset. Men respect another person saying no. Little boys and incels get upset and disrespect another for saying no. Bin him off. You don’t want him teaching your little boy to behave this way.

Honestly it sounds like he went to go cheat … they say when you say no someone else will& think it’s sad especially with him saying you should be flattered.. absolutely not

I get it, we mothers get tired and not in a mood never when we are new mothers. But men have needs, and if you really love your partners( i assume u love them bc u made babies) so why not help your love?? Do smth for 30 min, then sleep. We forget about our men when we have the right to remember and love our bodies, but men are like child too, they seriously need love and attention, they are like us, didn't know what was gonna hit them, before their love 😋machine got pregnant and got busy forever. plzz help ur men, before they get cold and far from u.

@Leyla GTFOH 🤢 “men have needs” <— they can sort themselves out. No one owes anyone anything. This rhetoric is so outdated and dangerous, dripping in misogyny. Disgusting.

@Leyla you are disgusting

@Donna Woods Literally 🤢

@Sarah that’s harsh. Go ask most men, married and unmarried, how much they love and think about sex. Sexual desires is a natural human thing that most of us crave. Why is it that most men find it sexy when a woman is horny or when she wants sex a lot.

@Imane no it’s not, it’s the type of comment that would come from a gross man. We aren’t on earth to “serve” sex

@Leyla I agree with yoy. Like yes being a mother is tiring, but it doesn’t change the fact that I’m a wife too. If I’m not the one to give my husband sex, then who will? That’s the whole point of marrying and committing to one person. Otherwise, let your man have a polygamy relationship if you can’t even give him a few minutes of intimacy

😂😂😂😂😂 my husband and I married for love not sex. Funny how my man is a real man and can take no for an answer

@Imane Your views are just as disgusting 🤢 If your husband can’t accept that things change when you have a child and that women are not around to serve up sex whenever the husband wants then he is no more than a child himself. Absolutely disgusting. I seriously hope you’re not raising daughters otherwise I fear for the misogyny they will grow up around.

@Sarah funny how you say gross man, but never seen a man that turned down sex. Obviously you wouldn’t know what men think unless you get inside their head. Well, no we aren’t made to “serve” sex, but two people that commit to be loyal and love each other, sex is a need like everything else. Imagine you want to hug your partner, your man, and he straight out says no. Women have emotional needs, men have physical. It’s not that hard to understand.

@Imane You said it best, but the commitment, love & respect plays a huge part on both ends when it comes to commitment, So he has to just respect that she isn’t in the mood.

@Imane if my Man ever said no to physical touch then guess what? I respect that because maybe he isn’t having the best day and needs space. It’s called RESPECTING BOUNDARIES

@Donna Woods Hm.. call it disgusting but it’s the truth.. hence why men prefer younger women, or at least find them more attractive. Coz being tired is a sign of aging. I went through birth twice but I still find the energy to please my husband. Funny how it’s okay for men to stare and checkout other women (based on so many views) but when it comes to him wanting sex from his woman, it’s childish? I find that more disgusting. Why do you think some men lust over other women? Because their partner isn’t satisfying them. And so many women actually come on here and ask that.

@Imane hhahahaha your joking right? So you support men preying on younger women because older women are “tired”? Gross

@Donna Woods and excuse me, who are YOU to say you fear for my daughters. My children will follow my views and that’s not for you to be affected by, or even give an opinion about

@Imane No. You are completely wrong. Your assumptions are baseless and rooted in misogynist view spouted by pathetic little boys that don’t actually have it in them to be proper men. Did you get picked? Your little pick me attitude makes me sick 🤢🤢🤢 You’re just as gross as the little boys you support.

@Imane hm.. it’s the truth… hence why I said it 😂 I do fear for your daughter being raised with these views.

@Nheria I agree with that. If she isn’t in the mood for sex, then it means something is bothering her. And she could talk about it, or just have a cuddle instead. I’m not in her situation, but all I’m saying is that rejecting your partner for sex is kinda like rejecting a potential date. It’s not childish if a man gets upset when all he wanted was his partner

Oh, of course 😂 silly me for thinking women are actual people and not just sexy little Energizer bunnies who owe their husbands sex on demand. Because clearly, once a woman turns 35, she just powers down like a used phone battery, right? Honestly, it’s impressive how confidently you repeated such a tired, sexist trope like it was a fresh insight. If a man only values youth and obedience, what he needs isn’t a younger woman, it’s a blow-up doll and a long look in the mirror. Grown-up relationships run on respect, not obligation. Here’s a trophy also for being such an ObEDIeNt and PERFECT mother 🏆

@Sarah no. I don’t support it. Im sayinf it exist, and it exists because married man are not getting the attention they need from their partner, hence why it happens. And me as a wife, I do what pleases my husband because then he wouldn’t feel as if he’s missing it. And vice versa btw, my husband says even when he’s tired and stressed from work, he would never say “no” to me for sex, and I love that. And that’s why I’ll do the same for him.

cause they’re childish assholes. not all men are like this. leaving the house over it in the middle of the night is insane

@Donna Woods me sharing my side equals to pick me.. okay. Whatever. Not gonna argue with someone’s who’s 10yrs older

@Donna Woods yeah and you raised your daughters to wear immodest outfits despite all the perverted men out there. We each have our way. I would never let my daughter be seen in a sexual way by horrible man, she knows she’s valuable and value will be to the right man

@Sarah I’ve said what I’ve said. And I don’t need your sarcastic trophy. Call it misogyny, call it disgusting, call it old views. Men don’t change, whether it’s once married, once becoming a father, once turning 60. They all get weak for sex, hence why men are easier to get turned on than women.

By the way every young person 25 and under I ever trained was extremely lazy. I would be working 6 days a week, 12-16 hour shifts, 60,000 steps a day and they would be asking to sit down after 1 hour into their 7 hour shift and whining. So age has nothing to do with it, you sound like a man with your views about younger is better because you have a lot to learn in life

Childish. Having a tantrum like a toddler. But not all men are like this.

@Imane my daughter is 4 months old so definitely not been raised in any manner 😂😂😂 Definitely a pick me 😂😂😂

@Donna Woods she’s grasping at straws to justify or try to hide the misogyny

@Sarah I’m sure she was raised by the same type of manchild that so heartily defends 🤢

@Sarah thanksss . 💓💓 God leads your soul to the right path

@Donna Woods then why did keep licking them on early stage of relationships??? Female like you make men fall in love with sex ,then deny them sex after they are married and made babies;/

@Donna Woods these two profiles have to be men….

Let’s all say it together…. NO ONE IS OWED SEX! MEN WILL SURVIVE WITHOUT IT! AND IF NOT THEY CAN DIE AND THATS FINE

@Sarah i never said, we women are here to serve men with sex at all. I love being woman, bc we are beautiful, strong and smart. But all these goes out of window when we become mother, we have drained in every way. And we forget ourselves and our partners. Love yourself first and don't forget ur partners don't hate u

@Haley, who hurt your feelings mama? It's ok if u hate men,but don't push your hurt feelings on other mothers, she asked for advice, not hate ;/

@Haley be careful they might bring your age up because apparently it’s aging women that have a problem 😂😂😂

@Leyla this take is always interesting because you are the one who has no faith in men. You obviously think they cannot control themselves and have no respect for their wives and can’t take no without a tantrum. So seems to me YOU are the one that hates men 🤔 And I also feel bad for because I am a mother and STILL beautiful and strong and smart. Nothing changed when I had a baby? Like what are you talking about?

@Sarah sorry, I didn't get your point. I know too much sex is not good for men, bc they become more calm and kind and human when they keep their juice in their spine ( or nuts) . But nothing about women, we are sex machines Lol

@Leyla it’s gross that you think women are sex machines. Again nothing you are saying is helping you sound less misogynistic

@Haley 😅😅I can't keep explaining my point of view to you, you are too young to understand men world. Read a book and stop hating hate men, or they will keep hurting women;(

@Sarah I'm saying we r sex machines, because we love sex as much as men do, why don't you want to admit it? Why do girls do OF, and all kinds of sexy things on the internet more than men, do you get it? We are not sex machines for men, we just want sexx a lot just like men

@Leyla lololol your profile says you are a single mom!!! So wtf do you know about keeping a man lol. Obviously whatever you doing isn’t working. And again you say men are hurting women because they got their feeling hurt. YOU ARE THE ONE THAT HATES MEN.

@Haley 😂😂😂 I was just about to say that

@Leyla again there are a lot of women against OF 😒

@Haley thanks for reminding me that im a single mom. Its us women who always hate and bring other women down. Seriously go read a non-fiction book so ur brains cells don't die. I'm a single mom, but not single lady 😎

I’m not sure which is more pathetic, storming out because you won’t have sex with him, or needing to run back upstairs mid tantrum to ask you where his keys are