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No, boys won't be boys. This is so disrespectful. Pretty gross, tbh. Yeah, we all find other people attractive, but to make it obvious you're checking someone out is not on, and you're pregnant. Wow.
I may be the odd one out here, but my partner and I point out attractive people to each other. I'm confident that I am the one my partner wants to be with, so it's truly never bothered me.
Yeah its disrespectful. I don't check men out in public
@MK haha we definitely do this over here too.
Looking once would be fine. Looking back multiple times is pretty cringe
@MK do y'all point out attractive men too? Because it seems like the majority of people who say that only mean women
Why don’t guys realize they look like Morons looking at other women 😂😂 when a guy looks at me and I notice he has a gf/ wife by his side I give a “disgusted mean mug face” 😂 men gotta realize this isn’t attractive it’s giving disrespect and moron 🙄
@MK same here! We're both looking at the same person usually if they're attractive 😅
@MK I think that’s different though as it’s an open conversation rather than (not so) sneaky looks. And you’re clearly both fine with it. I don’t think it’s a confidence thing, I think it’s a rudeness thing. It’s also uncomfortable for the woman he’s gawking at who’s just out enjoying her day!
@Raqi we point out both. Skewed a bit towards women, but probably only 60/40
This is disgusting and disrespectful
Yeah it would bother me if he’s deliberately doing it and well aware of it and making it obvious.
@Sorrel that is a valid point. I will say though, we don't always talk about it - it's 50/50 whether we bring it up or we just notice the other person noticing. Noticing and appreciating someone that's attractive is really just human nature. I'm not, by any means, saying that everyone has to agree with me. OP asked for opinions, and I gave mine....the situation she described wouldn't bother me.
That’s so disrespectful. And you’re 5 months pregnant? You’re a good woman cos I would’ve unleashed hell.
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@MK Yeah that’s fair enough, wasn’t batting down your opinion just highlighting a difference. I do think it’s normal to find other people attractive, we’re human - but I think blatantly checking someone out in front of your partner is unreasonable behaviour.
Depends on your woman. Depends on your man. Hot is hot. But 4 entire times? I woulda jokingly made atleast 2 quips. Or slapped him on his neck back. But annoyed not rly. But thats ME. It isnt about what would annoy us.. i.e. other women. Thats not our man its yours. And if it makes YOU feel a way. YOUR man shouldnt be so blaze about it. Thats just rude.
I draw a hard line on this. Checking regular people out in public when they are just trying to live their life is gross in general, with a partner or not. Gawking at people you find attractive is weird. Pointing people out with your partner is also weird. If my partner was always checking people out I would find a new partner.
I’m probably the one that looks 👀🫣
noticing an attractive person is absolutely fine & normal but doing a double or triple or QUADRUPLE take?!?! yeah no. that’s gross.
Screams thirsty and desperate to me. Like yes women are beautiful, but a married man shouldn’t lose control over himself that easily because he’s not a teenage boy anymore.
How embarrassing 🥴 He couldn’t even keep his roving eye in check when out and about with your family! 🤦🏽♀️ And the fact that you’re heavily pregnant with his child too 🤦🏽♀️ Of course it’s disrespectful! I fully expect he’ll end up cheating on you sooner rather than later, assuming he hasn’t already done so in the past. Those kind of gross men give zero fucks about anyone except themselves.
I’m sorry but gawking at anyone like that repeatedly looking back is just wrong not only is it disrespectful to you but I’m sure the woman wouldn’t want to be looked at in that type of way
I'm only annoyed if he points them out too late that I can't look too lol
We all have eyes, once I’ll let pass, 4 times? definitely not.
My husband doesn’t have a wandering eye and if he does then bless him he is lucky I’ve never caught him lol. Not sure why this is such a normalized thing though, or maybe I’m just extremely monogamous because when I’m in a relationship I literally do not see other men like they no longer register in my brain as people to be attracted to. Obviously I can still acknowledge someone being attractive but I don’t walk around and have someone catch my eye, the only person I see in that light is my husband.
My husband be like ☝️
Im not fussed at a look, people look i get it 'window shopping' but this is a conversation we'd had recently since ive been really hormonal and felt unsupported/ugly recently thats why im annoyed. He knows its a vulnerable time for me i specifically told him and he made it so obvious i saw while chasing around my toddler, my mum and uncle saw who are both unhappy because they have similar standing now im not hearing the end of it
I personally do this while I try not to sometimes someone just catches my eye and as for my husband but we both understand that we can find several people attractive and that doesnt mean we want them or to engage with them in anyway and we move on. He never speaks what he's thinking unless I ask and I don't speak what I'm think unless he ask.
Hard no. Literally lusting over someone else!
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Now you have given it alllll that context. I think hes wrong. He shouldnt have embarrassed you like that. And i hope you've had a firm chat with him. Tbh my mum would have eaten him by now poor man.
We all walk by people and think oh they are attractive/hot but to check them out like a creep is not ok. 😬
We both like to watch people and talk about appearance etc. Not because we're sexually attracted to someone or anything, we just enjoy watching a variety of people. Repeatedly looking back however is disrespectful!
I get having a wondering eye but to keep looking and make it KNOWN you’re looking is very disrespectful on his part. You don’t deserve that. To me that says he has no care that he’s actively with you
Objectifying people without consent is gross imo. And he did it in front of you while you’re carrying his child. He sounds like a pos.
Yeah he’s taking the piss and I’d be even more annoyed in front of your family