Breaking point

I feel like I’m getting to the point where I would be better off as a single mom. I already do everything for my son and it’s been like that since he was born. It doesn’t feel like we are a family at all. What was your breaking point in leaving your child’s father?

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I’m sorry you’re having to go through that. I think we all have different breaking points . I think the hard part of knowing you should Jane bell from him but don’t get any. It makes us question things. You are already doing all the work. Feel free to message me if you want to talk and vent

I’m feeling exactly like this right now!

Been there. Thankfully I have a husband who listens. It may take a few times, but I also know how he grew up. His mom did EVERYTHING. I told him I will not live that way. We had many fights. He thought I was going to leave him several times. I never even considered it, but I would also put up with more bs than I should. I realized that I was part of the problem(I’m not saying this is you at all lol, I don’t have enough info) but I had to stop assuming he knew what I wanted/needed from him. I used Pinterest to find some help with what to do. I also read the book called “how to be an adult in a relationship” and kind of shared stuff with him. That helped. Another problem was that he didn’t believe in himself. He thinks he can’t do things that he’s perfectly capable of. Again, I don’t know all of the details of your relationship, this is just what worked for us. Now we’re planning on getting a couples journal to do together. Mssg me if you want to vent ❤️