Lost sense of who I am
Show your support
Completely feel you! I’m either nurse or mum! There’s nothing else! Feel free to message lovely and we can chat about how rubbish our days are 😂🫶🏼
Definitely feel this! I’m actually quite local to you if you have time on weekday evenings to venture out for a bite to eat/drink (but I’m not a drinker incase this matters!) Beginning of last year (once my son had turned 1) I actually made myself do one solo activity a month, new or not so new & really enjoyed just meeting other people (or not if it was a solo cinema trip!) I joined book clubs, crafty things, a retreat day, spa trips, cinema, then actually joined a girls group across the UK if that would be of any interest to you. They do group events regularly too but there’s a fee ☺️
You’d have to find a hobby, a class that you wanna join, have something for yourself. Maybe it’s my friend group but every single mum I know has a hobby they go to. I’ll list some and see if any interests you I have friends that attend a photography group, hiking group, trivia night, bingo, poker, Pilates/yoga, Zumba, boxing, heels class, pole dance, indoor rock climbing, just gym. And they find friends there. As for me I’ve been dancing salsa and bachata for 3yrs now, I go salsa dancing every Friday night. Sometimes a gf joins me for drinks and some dancing but mostly I go by myself.
I can sympathize because I’m new to UK and am finding it hard to make Mum friends, I go to baby groups but half of the Mums there know each other so usually my son and I end up playing off to the side so I been finding it quite lonely