I'd lose my shit. If he cant parent for a couple hours, and calls it babysitting, why bother at all.
Ok so he can come and take them for few hours while he visits.
I would say ok if you can’t babysit then you’re not going to be seeing them.
Right. He’s not there to “babysit”, because he’s their father, not a fifteen year old girl earning pocket money after school. What a pillock.
Tell him if he’s not there to look after his child he’s not welcome. Also any time he says babysit correct him as he means ‘parent’