Bf going to the club?
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*Something social that people are also tryna mingle that he no longer went to I’m sure he’d feel a type of way
I’m not projecting, by my own personal belief is that the club is for people who are free of the responsibilities of parenthood and/or single. If you’re not going to the club with him, I don’t understand why he’s adamant on going while you’re home with your toddler. What’s so great about the club that he can comfortable dismiss your feelings and leave you with a toddler so he can go party? That would just be a huge issue for me.
I’m 38 I still go to the club 😂 my hubby is not a clubber, he’d prefer to go to the local bar or pokies w his boys and chill there. But I’ll be damned if he told me I can’t go to the club? Sure my club tastes in music has changed, I go to a lot of Latin clubs and Afrobeats clubs where we dance salsa/bachata and kizomba, sometimes an RnB club w my gfs, but I don’t feel too old in a club 💁🏻♀️ I’ve seen people up to 70yrs there dancing salsa lol. Hubby never comes w me I either go alone or I’m meeting gfs there buti go alone 90% of the time. He’s going w a friend AND his gf, there’ll be a female present so if anything happens out of the ordinary, would she not tell you? Dancing is fun, and it keeps me fit. I did 18k steps once after a night at the club. In my case it’s me going to the club and him staying home looking after the toddler (asleep) lol. It’s just dancing to me.
I guess you can’t really make choices for people, but if he cared about your feelings and you said it would make you feel more comfortable not being in that scene esp since you can’t come anymore. As in if he came with you to