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I hear ya! Unfortunately for us mommas once we become a momma we have to always do everything in our power for these kids regardless if our husbands are there or not. Mine went fishing and I made it late to my kids recital therefore I get your feeling :( hang in there

I think maybe you two should try to find a healthy way to communicate about this issue. Does he know how you feel?

@Nicole Guerra like he is suppose to be home every other week bc we are relocated due to his job and he got them to agree to let him travel back and forth for the sake of our daughter school till may and then we would move but yet he is out going to bars while he is gone and then when he is suppose to be here he is go to his families or out of town somewhere else while im doing everything. I mean at this point he is only paying the bills bc he is parenting or being a husband. He is out being a single / non parent bc he speaks to her 15 min a day and that's it. Today is 3 years since I found out I was pregnant and I ended up losing the baby and it was the 5th time so I am emotionally bc it was our last try snd he told me its the past drop it.

@Emily yes he does and he tells me he pays the bills and its my job to keep the house but im not allowed to spend money from his account so I have a full time job on top of doing everything. He hasn't been home for longer then 2 days since second week of March.

Did you say anything to him about it no argument no nagging bit did you conversate about it

Definitely have a conversation or make time for counseling. A lot of times men believe we have it altogether because we move so efficiently but tell him that you are falling apart and if that doesn’t work try counseling! You got this Momma! And Happy Early Mother’s Day Ladies!

@Maya yes we talked about it on Monday about how I was feeling and he said he would be home from hunting early so he could spend time with us before he leaves again on Monday. I haven't heard from much since he left on Tuesday. Every time I try and talk to him he just shuts down and tells me im being a whiney baby. I literally said honey I am feeling very neglected and like im not a priority right now. And he told me that I need to grow up.

@Devin 😮‍💨 that’s horrible and if he’s gonna act that way then it’s time to disconnect and focus on you since he seems to prioritize just himself not a lot of men are up to counseling but if he is then I encourage but if not then let him do him and if he continue to choose himself then you know what you have to do as a women

I've been reading the comments and he doesn't sound like he's ready to be a husband, much less a father. My husband wasn't home a lot with my first two kids but he was at work and the job was demanding. Going to bars and such is a bad sign to me... and hunting? Looks like any reason to not be home. I'm so sorry.

i hate this for you ! I truly believe most women including myself get stuck in similar shoes for years and both parties in the relationship just become more and more resentful making each more bitter and spiteful resulting in every problem multiplying. If you’re going to stay, for yourself which IS ultimately for your child… you need to communicate and let your own personal accountability be that your duty has been fulfilled if you toon the time and effort to say your needs and your opinions of “how things should go” if he’s not going to agree than that’s on him and trust me girl it’s not to be taken lightly … just know

the day is coming. your child will know who was there and who was not. your child will know who they had to go to when they were scared , or when they needed help with school work. Your child will figure it out so above all just model the integrity you know you have (takes hella grit) but it’s possible