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I’m a FTM and 5weeks pp. It hasn’t been easy, especially now that my mum has left.
I had an emergency c-section, and even at the hospital my husband was being unsupportive and made me feel like I failed by not having a vaginal delivery. Was on the drip for 10h+ while being monitored, because my daughter had done a poo.
He was no help while we were in hospital because he was constantly on his phone working, was so late to pick us up once we got discharged ( didn’t got home until 10pm).
Came home to a dirty bathroom, no towels and no fresh bedsheets ( had to do it myself). I was feeling really ill two days in and he was complaining about taking me hospital. My mum has been the one looking after me and helping with baby. My meals, meds ( had some complications) and just general support.
I feel like I married a child. He complains that I don’t give him enough attention, that I love the baby more and now he is pressuring me to have sex.
My baby is EBF and I do everything when it comes to her care, I’m physically and mentally exhausted.. she won’t stay with dad for more than 5min and somehow he has managed to make me feel guilty for it.
Is this normal am I just being difficult?
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Learn more about our guidelines.Jesus christ. It's not normal, nor are you being difficult. Your husband is a fucking asshole. You have just had major surgery and you have to look after a child, you are the one needing support not him. I wouls honestly pack my bags and go stay with a family member or friend, I know that's easier said than done but it sounds like being with him is much more stressful than without.
I really want to ask my mum to come get me, you’re right. I should go stay with someone for a while. Just need to wait until my next doctor’s appointment. - I live 5hours away from my family
I understand what you’re going through with lack of support. I struggled on my own with a house full of people unwilling to help after a vaginal delivery with episiotomy. I can’t even imagine in your case doing it all and just had a c-section with complications. I’d say if you know your family will support you and your baby to make the move. Your body and mental health will thank you.
Wow I am so sorry you have to go through this! I struggled even with a great support system so I can only image how you feel! He sounds like a child and an asshole. As soon as you can stay with family get out of there with the bubba and get the support and love you deserve ❤️❤️❤️
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