Strippers?

My husband went to the strippers on a guys trip, he isn’t the type to normally go but being 34 weeks pregnant I’m feeling super insecure about my body. I feel like I don’t even want him to see me naked now, because I know I look awful compared to last naked women he saw. I’m trying not to be hurt by it but I can’t shake it. Am I over reacting?

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Talk to him about it ❤️

I wouldn’t wanna either tbh we’ve talked about it and he knows how I’d feel, you’re not overreacting but have you guys talked about it? If not you gotta to let him know how you’re feeling, and respect the aftermath of his decision🤷🏻‍♀️ as in he respects you not wanting to get undressed or something in front of him for a bit til you feel more comfortable

100% unacceptable. I get men do these things but when you're heavily pregnant that was absolutely inconsiderate of him and he should know better. My partner doesn't go to any of those places so I'm very lucky as I know a lot do and people make out it's normal. I wouldn't be comfort with this while heavily pregnant and quire frankly he shouldn't be either lovely x

Communication is key! Just tell him how you feel. I would feel some type of way about it too. Love your body and he will love yours! I had sex while I was pregnant and my husband didn’t care!

Did you speak about this beforehand ? Does he know how you feel about the situation etc , talk to him

To me that's crossing them line and it's Not normal,not only for your dignity but also your trust ...if my partner went to go see strippers I see that as cheating,I don't get why married men feel the need to go to strippers,unless you says its okay which clearly you feel very uncomfortable with that , especially being pregnant that's just so low of him to be honest...I'd be disgusted gonna be real that would hurt

I agree with all the communication is key comments- in our marriage the strip club used to be where we would go together for a spicy night out 😂 now that we are married with a kid we don’t get to do that anymore however we have talked and if he were to go on a boys trip/ bachelor party he would be “allowed” to go because I feel like it wouldn’t be fair to him for everyone else to go and he has to go to his hotel room 😂 but our rule is- he’s not allowed spending money on the girls, so no lap dances, no going on stage, etc also he has to tell me before he goes and keep me in the loop!

idk if it’s just me but i’d leave his ass!!! strippers are 100% unacceptable

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