You can try sexting or video chat with a guy first and letting him watch. Since it's his first time trying it, just to play it safe to make sure he feels comfortable with it. Make sure you feel comfortable about it. That's good he is communicating with you :) if yall do go that route, talk about boundaries and things you wouldn't like when it does happen. Personally it didn't affect my relationship. It was purely physical and having good communication makes it to where bad things wont happen.
Personally I would be open to it if my husband asked me but he's not really into that sort of thing
I feel like at that point it’s an open marriage. Almost polyamorous, but exclusively just for you. If you’re looking to experience other people without losing your marriage, i say do it. Lowkey if you can go without don’t! Don’t ruin a good thing.
It comes down to what YOURE comfortable with. If you’re willing to explore that then by all means go for it, however if you truly don’t want to and this is something that you could never agree with then I think you should have a very serious conversation with him about why it is he wants to see that and what this means for your marriage
Hell to the no. My parents did it and unfortunately made it known, and my mom swears it progressed to my dad just wanting to have sex with the men, but idk. I think it’s disgusting, unhealthy, and effd up for a husband to want to watch his WIFE be with someone else.
Maybe he’s trying to test ya 🤣
Will he want to do the same after? And are you willing to let him? 🤔
Thanks for the responses ladies! I’m not into it at all, honestly I want a man who’s obsessed with me and wanting to “share” doesn’t say that. Just wanted to hear others experiences when one party feels that way, if it kills the marriage.
I think if it’s done with clear boundaries and a thorough conversation before hand it could work. But YOU have to be into it. If you’re not, there’s no point! Maybe you could compromise by saying someone else’s name during sex (like a celebrity)? 😂😂
I would never be with such a man, seriously. It's extremely important for me whether my husband is possessive about me or not. If he is comfortable with such acts then for me it's like he has no respect for me and our relationship. I am not his slave where he wants me to share with others. I actually hate such men who disrespects a woman by having such thoughts and desires.
I have to say that is a bit wild but the question is would you be willing to explore that fantasy with your husband. You don’t have to have an open relationship but that can be something y’all do whenever.