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So my partner has decided to tell me now, at 39 weeks, that he doesn't like the name we've had picked out for baby. He previously said he really loved it and has been calling her it in my belly and I'm really gutted as it's just been her name since so early on. It feels like he's being controlling. And now I'm like what the f am I going to call my baby?! And I know sometimes names just don't fit and I was very open that if she came out and just didn't suit it, that I would pick something different. I'm just feeling very sad about her name now :(
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Honestly, this is such a tough decision. My husband and I also thought several times that we had finally found the name for our baby, only to change our minds a few weeks later. It's so easy to fall in and out of love with a name. Since it's something your baby will carry for the rest of their life, I totally understand why he might be doubting your choice now.
Tbh if it where me, that's her name now.. you agreed previously, you've gotten used to that name and baby has been referred to by that name, that's her name now in my book, he will have to deal with it, had months to say different but it's been said in the last week, nope
@katherine Personally, it's very important to me that my husband likes our child's name.
@Meis it's important for them both to like it, and they did, they picked it together, they agreed on it and have been calling their child by that name, since "early days" so to me it is odd that he has just mentioned this now, he has had months, why has he left it so late? She has even said it feels like he's being controlling so I don't play games like that I'm afraid hence why the name would remain the same especially when its a name she has gotten used to... why anyone would leave it till the 39th week to mention this after previously stating he loved it is odd behaviour, is mum getting too much attention as due date it arriving and he has to make It a bit about him and cause a bit of stress and drama? There's an awful lot of men who work that way unfortunately and he's just causing unnecessary stresses at a fragile time she should be able to relax as much as possible now preparing for birth but he's throwing a spanner in the works, why?
@katherine I don’t know him, so I can’t judge his motives. If it really is about control and manipulation, then of course you’re right, she should keep the name. But if he truly changed his mind - not intentionally - then I would try to find another name.
My husband and I had a name picked out even before I got pregnant. We loved it so much until I said it too many times and started to dislike it. Of course it wasn’t on purpose. I just wasn’t convinced anymore. And I’m glad my husband was open to discussing new names.