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Just a rant - I don’t really like my bd, I kept my baby because this is the first time I’ve ever gotten pregnant. I didn’t know if I could have children as i suffered from PCOS and absent periods all together after having the contraceptive implant at 16 for 3 years and I’m 27 now. i havent had a period for nearly 10 years, I really don’t know how I got pregnant but it happened and I love my baby girl so much - she’s 6 weeks old. My baby dad used to work but he lost his job and hasn’t gotten a new one since I was 3 months pregnant. He’s broke and miserable and blaming it all on me because he stormed out of an important day of work for ONE scan because they really needed him that day. He’s rude and everytime we’re together we argue. He constantly asks ME for money even though I’m on maternity leave and because I don’t give it he calls me selfish! I can’t believe I had a baby with this man!! Why did it have to be him!😔 my mum says everything happens for a reason but I don’t know what this reason could be.
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Learn more about our guidelines.That’s horrible when they expect you to help them while you already struggling. If you don’t see he’s really looking for a job I would say move on.
@Alina I wouldn’t say it’s horrible, but it can definitely suck. But that comes with partnership, if it were the other way around we would be expecting our partner to do what this woman is doing until we’re able to figure things out ourselves. But I do agree with you that if he’s not making an effort & just complaining about it then he may need to figure things out somewhere else
@Serenity i guess It’s depending on the person but some men will take advantage of a situation. Depends if this is a pattern or something that really just happened out of nowhere
He hasn’t had a job since I was 3 months pregnant and my baby is now 6 weeks old, I don’t know but it’s definitely not ideal and I feel as though he is taking advantage now
Yeah that is a long time
You don’t need to be looking after two kids, you have an amazing desire to be a mother you’d do great on your own x
@Alina yea I agree, that’s very true