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My MIL is watching my daughter now that I’m back at work and I am eternally grateful to her as she isn’t charging us and watches her 5 days a week 7-3/9-5. I am concerned though as most of the day miss rachel is on and my daughter is left to watch because my mother in law isn’t very well and she struggles to be active due to health conditions and she only speaks very limited English.
My daughter is a clever bunny and before me returning to work only had very minimal screen time. I’m just worried she’s going to slow down considerably now in regard to cognitive development.
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Learn more about our guidelines.That is probably to much screen time but it's hard if your MIL struggles to be active and can't keep up with your daughter. It's a hard place to be. Just keep an eye on her cognitive development is all you can do and encourage her to do more cognitive activities or things when your have her.
@Stacey this is my issue. I really can’t complain as she is helping me SO much but at the same time I’m really concerned about my little girl. She has loads of toys which I’ve taken over to my MiL house but I don’t think she plays with them much
It's very hard I understand what you are saying and I sympathise with you I don't know what the answer is without potentially unsettling your MIL
It's a tough situation. If I were you I probably try to find a childminder or nursery at least for a couple of days a week. Especially if you qualified for government funded childcare.
@Vaida for personal reasons (own abuse experience) I don’t feel comfortable leaving my child with strangers at this age.
And I'm guessing there is no one else? Even to help out a little?
@Stacey unfortunately we don’t have a big support system and myself and my partner both work full time :( I’m considering leaving my job but we will struggle a lot finically as I’m the higher breadwinner
I don’t really see the issue with tv being on all day I personally have mine on all the time my boy will just flit in and out of watching it. But if she’s not well enough to be interacting with your child, taking them out etc I personally don’t think she should be her main carer.
Have you tried a therapy or any other ways to overcome your experience of being abuse? If you can let go those horrible things from your past, life will become so much easier for you. And you will be able to trust other people with childcare. I had so many bad things happened to me but therapy did wonders!
@Bella she interacts with her and tries to play with her toys but she can’t be very active with her taking her out or running up and down with her ect so a lot of the time the tv is on in the back. Not to say my daughter watches constantly as she does entertain herself here and there.
Regardless I have no other option aside from quitting my job as I’m not leaving my daughter with strangers. The thought of it terrifies me
@Vaida yes I’m currently in therapy atm but i just don’t think i can trust a stranger with my baby until she is atleast able to speak
If it’s on in the back and she’s interacting with her I don’t see a problem personally
Really well done to you for going to a therapy! And I agree with others that TV is not so bad expecially Mrs Rachel as it teaches babies many things!
@Vaida thank you I just really want to do the best by my baby girl. In every way. Hence why I’m working so hard full time I really don’t want her to want for anything and I really am in my own mind keeping her safe by keeping her with her grandma. I get video updates throughout the day and she is playing ect. Just conscious that the tv is on all day.
Miss Rachel has taught her to clap and wave and has taught her to open and shut her hands and she dances along with the nursery rhymes she doesn’t just stare aimlessly