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My daughter was on the potty and she was sat for 15 minutes because she said she was not done ( nothing had been done) she stud up and her dad’s partner shouted at her to sit down on the potty. I told my daughter to stand up and told his partner my daughter did not have to listen to her especially if she uses that tone.
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Learn more about our guidelines.There needs to be ground rules amongst how you choose to guide your daughter - a conversation between you and her father needs to be had.
Then after you can sit with the partner and relay what’s been decided.
If the partner is going to be a permanent fixture in your daughter’s life - that interjection will cause issues if she ever tries to correct your daughter or reprimand her for anything else as she won’t respect her or see her input as valid.
@Dianne he has a “permanent fixture” every 3 months 🙃. I don’t shout at my daughter so I’ll be damned if someone who isn’t her mother does. A child can be taught right and wrong without being scared
I totally agree with you regarding shouting. I too don’t believe you must shout at a child to get a point across.
I think you need to see him set some boundaries if he’s rotating them as often as you say - Its not healthy for your daughter
@Dianne I said I don’t want them introducing unless you’ve dated for 6 months preferably longer but he ignores me. I won’t date because I don’t want a stranger around my child 😅
Also if it was my mum shouting at my daughter I’d have the same reaction 😅
🫣🫣🫣 to answer your question - YES. I would be frustrated and his actions would make my frustrations even worse.
Why is another woman SHOUTING at a toddler? Oooo I would be pissed! Not only at her, but your shit ex too for bringing these strange disrespectful women around our child!
If he has a rotating carousel of women around your child, that is going to affect them badly. He is really doing a disservice to your child. Can you take him to court and try and go for supervised visits only?
You are right to teach your daughter not to listen to people who shout at her. Especially during such a pivotal time of potty training where it’s normal for them to sit on the potty for ages, have accidents etc. They’re learning to listen to their bodies and all they need at that stage is praise and encouragement, NOT shouting, anger and time pressure.
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