Is it just me or is my baby hyperactive

Hey! I’m not sure if this is important, but I’ve never had to count kicks or anything because she is ALWAYS moving. I think she sleeps when I sleep (thank God) but when I’m awake? Nonstop. All. Day.

Don’t get me wrong, I absolutely love it - even though she hurts me now that I’m 35 weeks and she has no room - but I wonder if that’s good or bad? Any advice is welcome

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My doctors have said that is super good. We should be worried if they aren’t moving as much. I’m 33wks and my son is super active and only sleeps when I sleep sometimes. I’ll take a nap and it feels like he’s playing soccer in there.

@Delonda omg good!! Thank you - & yes!! If I’m trying to nap, game over - I’m pretty sure she only sleeps at night when I sleep so fingers crossed she keeps that up when she decides to come out 😂

🤣🤣 I Agree I’m praying for the same thing

My doctor told me that movements count too because my baby also moves more than she kicks lol when im trying to sleep and she’s moving a little too much, I play music next to my belly and she stops lol

My midwife said there's no such thing as too much movement. I was worried too lol

I asked my doc the same thing. This is my second baby and my daughter didn’t move this much ever. He’s constantly living it up in there

I’m 31 weeks and I keep saying that when she gets here, I’m signing her up for gymnastics IMMEDIATELY 🤣 she moves around all day. AND all night. This is my first but I keep hearing it’s normal so I just go with it.

Had this conversation with my obgyn at my last appt, me at about 32 weeks 😂 She asked me if baby was moving and I go "oh, all the time, it keeps me awake frankly" and she just says, "Good, that's very good... well, not about the sleeping bit, but the movement is good." Feels like little man is doing martial arts in there or something 😅

My daughter was this way. Extremely active in the womb and still is at 20 months old 😂 I’m pregnant with my son and he doesn’t move as much as she did. I think he’s going to be a chill little guy

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