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ever since my husband has gone back to work since having the baby, it’s like i’m not allowed to ask for a little help. i’m 5 weeks PP and he’s been back to work for 3 weeks now. still recovering from c section, living off of no food until he comes home at 4pm, no sleep, and no time to breathe. every time i bring up the fact i need help, he says he’s doing all he can which is feeding the baby once and changing his diaper and then he goes off to have his “me time” until he goes to bed for work. he continuously says i’m asking for too much when i tell him that’s not enough. today we had a big argument because he promised me all week he would help this weekend since he’s been out a lot and when i woke him up at 5am to feed the baby, he got upset and said he didn’t get much sleep because he went to bed at 1 and i told him he promised me he would help. he eventually fed him but was very upset about it. i was too scared to wake him up anymore so i nursed the rest of the day and let him sleep until 1pm he woke up and i was noticeably upset. he told me i cant be mad at him because i woke him up at the worst part of his sleep cycle and he needed his rest. i told him i was mad because he promised me something and then didn’t uphold his end, he said “yes i did i fed him at 5 and i didn’t want to” i was so mad i didn’t say anything. he then lashed out at me and was cussing at me saying everything he does isn’t good enough, i ask for too much, and i want everything to be perfect and done the way i want it done. and then says “you wonder why i’m never home and why i take so much time to myself is because of you, i don’t like being around you because you’re always upset” because he says i’m always in a bad mood, which is because he’s constantly coming home late to take time to himself. i’m just so hurt, confused, and angry. it’s so hard sometimes to feel like im not crazy and that what i’m asking for isn’t too much but i just want to know from other mama’s perspectives..
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Learn more about our guidelines.Thatnis so shocking, if this was my husband i would leave him straight away, such disrespect, this is not a life anyone should live.
Me and the fool I'm married to had the exact same argument today. Seems like single life is better off than being married.