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2nd time SAHM momma here.
I have a 4.5 year old and 4 month old.
I've never been a routine oriented person (though i have a degree and have had success in my career), and my husband is more random than me (but has ADD/ ADHD). But of course, theres some things i do everyday like eat, take son to preschool, brush teeth, etc.
With 5 years of marriage & motherhood, I've found it harder to implement routines, and my life suffers for it... i never find time for myself and I always feel rushed to squeeze things in. I feel bad at the enf of the day when i cant get everything done. I stay awake late trying to clean and do things i dont have time for during the day, but again no time for self. Im struggling with depression and anxiety. I need some balance and sanity.
Summer is usually more unstructured, but i would like to make time for religious lessons, excersize for myself, some adventure days like camping or beach, making a baby book, and time with my partner. I feel i'll never get these things done if i cant discipline myself and family with a routine.
Can someone advise, especially non-routine oriented moms who have managed without or had success implementing one, or at least make me feel better that i cant give this gift of discipline to my children? Makes me feel like a bad mom.
Thanks.
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Learn more about our guidelines.Hey its okay to not get everything done I am not perfect and I don't really get time to myself either apart from a nap š
My routine hope it helps
Before kids wake up read a passage of God's word
Pray
Wake kids breakfast brush teeth get dressed school
Morning tidy up
Play with 1 year old
Pick up kids lunch rest on the counch while they attack me š¤£
Nap times
Shower time
Play time
Dinner
Clean up
TV time
Bedtime meditation music
Read God's word pray š
I am not great with routines either, but I have some ideas on ways you can optimize your time. Can you take your oldest to vacation Bible schools? You could likely drop them off so they could get some time spent focusing on religion and having fun while you have time to get stuff done around your house with your little one. I also love ābody doublingā where you do something with someone else. It can be as simple as a phone call with a family member after the kids go to bed while you work on your baby book. Can you schedule a regular date night with your spouse either with a sitter or where you watch a movie and have a snack (think break and bake cookies so you have something decadent) after they go to bed? I find two for one activities or body doubling to be really helpful.
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