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So, I'll say this in beginning, im not trying to start a debate or anything. So no arguing cause this can/will prob start arguments but...
So I was thinking of getting my some a kitchen set bc he loves to play with our bowls and plates ect, and thought it would be fun to get him his own play set. I mentioned this to my parents and my dad was like "why don't you get him a tool set instead. You dont want to blur the lines of gender" and that stuff. Which i agree the lines shouldn't be blurred for gender especially this young however I am under the impression that kitchen sets are neutral, for boys and girls? Like ive seen boy colored kitchen sets.. and idk i just want to know what everyone thinks and should I just go ahead and get him kitchen set for Christmas. Idk kinda made me a little ugh bc I feel like he'll love the kitchen set more than the tool set. Also if you do have kitchen set for your boys can you send picts of it? Or what brand you got?
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Learn more about our guidelines.Boys cook and enjoy meals - this isn’t like a make-up set or something… Plus cooking is a life skill. You don’t want him growing up thinking that the kitchen isn’t a space for him; he should feel confident and comfortable making himself food. Even if he ends up being super traditional and has a wife who cooks for him, what happens in college while he’s independent and single? Or when wife is sick? To me this is like suggesting he shouldn’t know how to wash his own laundry.
That’s silly. Off the top of my head I can name more male chefs than female chefs. By a lot.
Get him the kitchen set! It’s for both to enjoy! 😊♥️ Look at all the male chefs in the world!
if the boy likes to cook, then get him a kitchen set. i’m sure you can find one that is more masculine than others. you don’t want to get him something that he may or may not find any enjoyment in.
My eldest has had a play kitchen since he was 1yrs old, and he loved it! Grown out of it now as he’s 6yrs old, his sister who is 2yrs old hardly plays with it 😂
I’m very much for not blurring the lines of gender for kids & I don’t think a kitchen set is girly at all! Lots of male chefs. I think it’s a great skill to have , everyone should know how to cook for themselves. Buy the little guy his kitchen set! 👏🏼
Toys are not gendered.
I bought my son a baby doll last Christmas because we learned we were expecting baby #2. We live in the south. A woman looked upset and said we should buy him an action figure instead and I told her to mind her business and dolls are for everyone. I’ll buy him a kitchen set too because I want him to take care of himself.
Boys are chefs as well on my father side all the men cook on my mother side the woman cook. Eventually he’ll have to be able to feed himself and not depend on a woman to feed or cook for him if he’s in a relationship in the future and she gets mad dinner may not be made and will he sit there and starve because that’s for women no he’s gonna cook. If he like to play with kitchen items I say do it. They also have the little grills for the kids to play with
Boys playing with kitchen sets/baby dolls is emulation for how to be...a good dad
@Katherine same, our 15 mo has a baby because we're due in a few mo. He mostly ignores it but will pick it up, hug it/hand it to me, then throw it back in it's "crib" lol
@Tiffany thats better than what my LO does lol. Don't have a baby doll just cause thats my preference of not getting him one, but he has a teddy bear that he'll give me to hold, but then get jealous of it and want me to pick him up instead lol, its the cutest thing. But he wants me to hold him and the teddy bear. 😂
My dad is the main chef in my family and he’s super masculine too. It doesn’t mean anything ☺️ buy him the kitchen 🥰
What a ridiculous comment from the family members.
Do the males in their family not go in their kitchens? Do they not make themselves food/drink using bowls, plates, cutlery, cups?
That’s a very narrow minded, old fashioned and frankly quite sexist opinion that kitchens are only for girls 🙄
Some of the world's top chefs are men. And it's frankly deplorable how many grown men can't feed themselves. Definitely get your kid a set and teach him how to cook as he's old enough
My son is getting a kitchen for his 2nd birthday, his dad is a chef and he loves being with his dad in the kitchen.
My son has a kitchen set! He’s 2 and absolutely loves it! It could even be considered a more “girly” kitchen set.
I’m also not into gender bias - he has a doll as well that he nurtures, put to bed/pretend soothes. All of those skills and attributes are relevant no matter the gender. When I have a girl, she’ll be playing with tool sets and what not as well - because those are also relevant skills for a girl.
My 19 month old got his kitchen at 13m for Christmas and he’s obsessed with it, we got him interactive microwave, kettle, mixing bowls, watching machine and he plays with it daily and you can add bits to it as you go along. He’s got toot toot cars and a tool bench but his kitchen is his go too. He’s got a shopping trolly and a cleaning cart which he loves to help sweep and mop, mop the dogs and me but it’s mopping haha.
Get him a kitchen xx
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@Jewel ohh thats the one I saw on an ad on fb but couldn't find it again after that! Thank you so much everyone. 😀 Makes me feel better about getting him one. He'll be i believe 21 months by Christmas and I want it to be his "Santa" gift. 🥰
I agree about the blurred lines but I feel it’s also important to have them learn nurturing ways including cooking and caring for family and their selves in various ways… Awww there has gatta be boy sets, but also maybe a grill set ?
@Cali yeah, thats what im thinking, like ive seen a blues clues one that im thinking of also cause he loves blues clues. And theres other colors like blue and green, not just girly or princess colors.
Toys shouldn't be gendered in the first place. Men cook (kitchen sets) and men take care of their children (baby dolls). I don't understand why people put so much emphasis on pieces of plastic that a literal toddler is going to be playing with, toddlers have no real concept of gender just let them have fun!
My personal opinion is that toys are not gendered and putting genders to toys is what blurs the lines. Some ladies are more in the way of building things and some boys prefer domestic things. When we tell them that the things they like are only for the other gender then it is very easy for them to be confused about their gender. I'll be encouraging my children to play with what they want to and I won't be passing judgement on them for what they choose
We have a kitchen for my 4 year old, my oldest now 16 used to have a doll and buggy.
My partner is a chef.
Children learn through role play
This is like saying only girls can push a buggy, how is a boy going to learn to be a dad/ father later in life by seeing other boys/ men push buggy’s, cook, clean
Like girls need to see women in roles that people may see as mainly for men like mechanics, sports, building, electricians, plumbing etc…
I've never seen a "girly" kitchen set. It's neutral for a reason. Most of the home style toys are (vacuums and cleaning toys, shopping stuff, dolls, kitchen ware, etc.)
If he'd prefer the kitchen, then get that. His gift is about him, after all.
After working in a preschool and nursery setting, I can confirm that toys have no gender in their eyes! I have seen so many little boys pretend to cook for their friends and play dress up. And I’ve also seen little girls race cars and play with toy tools. You buy your son whatever will make him happy and they will learn to get over it.
My son absolutely loves his kitchen he pretends to make us food and cups of teas he also has a doll and a pram he will be 4 next month most children don’t see that stuff is for girls or for boys they just find them interesting and it’s also good for there imagination I’d get him the kitchen hun you won’t regret it my son also has the work bench he will play with it but does prefer his kitchen cause he can get everyone invovled x
I think either one can be in the kitchen, but I've seen a very cute barbecue set for boys, which I think is very cute