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I am currently pregnant with baby #2, had my little girl in May 2023 and she is my bestie, I always wanted a girl and she is my entire world. Now that I’m pregnant with baby #2 (little boy) I’m worried that I wont be as attached to him as I am with my little girl, I feel like a horrible person even just thinking this but in my mind I can’t see how I will love another child like I love my little girl 🥺 did anyone else feel like this? Someone please tell me I’m not going mad 🫣
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Learn more about our guidelines.I’m not pregnant with my second yet but I’ve always worried that I won’t love the second as much as my first, like you she is my little bestie I absolutely love this age and it breaks my heart the thought of her having to share me but everyone I have spoken to says you absolutely love them as much and that your heart doubles with love ❤️
I’m also pregnant with my second and my daughter was born may 23. I think it’s hard to imagine at the moment because you don’t know this new baby, but once they are here I’m sure the love will be just as strong; that’s what I’m told anyway!
This is a very normal way to feel, I couldn't comprehend how I could love another as much as my first. Then my May baby was born and we couldn't remember life without her! You very quickly form the same bond and love for the second 🥰
My daughter was born May 23. I also now have a 6 month old. Trust me you find more love and when they make eachother laugh you’ll really feel it xxx
I had my daughter in May and my son Jan this year, the love is different but you love them the same x
I’d always envisioned having a little girl and then we had a boy. I couldn’t be more obsessed with him if I tried. He is 1000% a mummy’s boy and he’s just hilarious. You will love them no matter what x
My May baby is our second and the love just comes. I was probably overthinking things in the beginning and wondering if I loved one more than the other (worrying myself) but you really don’t.
I still have to work on making sure I get quality time with my eldest, but I think that’s just how it goes with anymore than one child. Sarah Ockwell-Smith recommends one on one ‘dates’ with your children and I couldn’t agree more. It’s lovely for everyone, plus it makes the children more understanding when you go out on a date with your other half ☺️❤️
You will love him just as much, I have a daughter first (may 23) and honestly when I got pregnant when she was 8 months old I felt bad that she didn’t get a lot of time to be the only child but now baby boy is here (oct 24) I wouldn’t have it any other way, I will say I’m not as “attached” to him as I was her but for me I put that down to I’m not as anxious because it’s my 2nd time being a mum if that makes sense, your love will grow