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So me and my husband have been trying to conceive for 2 years.
I found out today my sister in law who’s daughter has just turned 1 is pregnant again. I feel so happy for her but so sad for myself. Like i question why i’m unable to get pregnant again. I’ve been crying all day since ive found out because i am so desperate for another baby.
I feel guilty that im not happy for them like i should be. But am so sad for myself. What should i do
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Learn more about our guidelines.What we did after 2 losses in a row was go to a local fertility clinic & see a reproductive specialist because we didn't want to wait to have 3 losses in a row to finally get help & things looked into with my ob's office. We got bloodwork done on me to see if there was anything going on with me that was causing the 2 miscarriages & if they didn't find anything wrong with me they were going to do testing on my husband next to see if it's something with him possibly.
Things sorta got interrupted testing wise because I got pregnant again and to be honest I thought it wasn't going to stick etc but surprisingly here we are at almost 34 weeks. I'm still nervous of what could go wrong being this far along but hoping things turn out well etc. If I get pregnant again after this pregnancy & it is a miscarriage again, I plan to return to the fertility clinic to resume our testing & hopefully get some answers this time.
I would recommend trying that route so you can find answers & have successful pregnancy in the future
I’ve been here. It’s really hard. A lot of mixed emotions. Your time will come. All of your feelings are valid.
It’s so hard. I can relate. My sister in law has had two babies in the almost two years that my husband and I have been trying to conceive our first child. We also recently expected a loss. It’s definitely not easy and you’re not alone. I’ve learned that both joy and sorrow can coexist in this journey. ❤️🩹