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We might have baby #3 on the wayâŠđł
I canât remember the last time I had my periodâŠWe just moved into our own apartment about a month ago.We havnt really had a full day together as a family since moving bc we both work.Then the days one is off the other has to go to work.
Me personally Iâve wanted a lot of kids but the two have been overwhelming, already most of the time I feel like Iâm straining myself.I feel a little unsure on how to recharge or fill up my cup bc thereâs always some kind of work to do.
A few close family members have commented,âtwo is all youâre having right!?âWhen honestly I want several đł
But both me and Dad donât feel readyâŠI donât support abortion and we have been using several different forms of birth control.Let nature take its course I suppose.
What were some things you kindly told your family when they made rude comments�
Iâm too scared to take a pregnancy test.If I am this baby is wanted but weâre just like âoh my goodness how do we prep for this?â
Any feedback would be helpfulâŠ
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Learn more about our guidelines.I would take a breather. People tend to follow your lead. They obviously see you struggling - as youâve just said you are, so would wonder how/ why youâre ready for another. Which I do feel is a valid reaction/ question if they know how over stretched you already are with everything currently. Take it from a place of love that they care for you.
However. I would think that if you told them all excitedly, youâre over thrilled, blessed, so excited etc etc most people will tend to following your lead and be excited for you.
And if they were to make rudeee comments I would just politely remind them that this is your life and their opinion is relevant essentially.
But as a side note- I would also take birth control more seriously if I didnât feel ready for another child just yet!
Maybe tactics on whatâs helping yall thrive with 2 under 2âŠ.