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does anyone else love their baby to absolute pieces but hate being a mother?
i just feel so sick and tired of it all and i’m really struggling to motivate myself to care for him at times, the only reason i do is because i love him and know he needs me.
i hate not being able to spend time by myself now he’s awake all day
i hate going to bed knowing it’s not going to be a real sleep and i’ll be up in a couple of hours
i hate waking to his cries knowing i have to get up and make a bottle and feed him
it just feels like my soul is being torn to absolute shreds
i don’t feel like my own person, i don’t feel happy, i don’t even get a chance to cry anymore despite feeling so sad. i just want to run away and be on my own but i could never bring myself to leave him. i just don’t think i have it in me to be a mum. i feel so tired and so so miserable.
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Learn more about our guidelines.I feel like that. I was not ready for my second child, mentally, emotionally, or financially. I don’t hate my baby, she’s amazing and sweet and I love her so. So much. But I feel so much resentment for having her before I was ready to go from a mom of one to a mom of two. I hate that I am so overstimulated by the end of the day, I hate not having time for myself and spreading myself out for everyone. I feel like shit because she’s amazing and deserves better and I try every day to be a great mom and be loving and caring and give my everything into both of my kids, but I’m so exhausted of not being me
I'm right there with you, I love my daughter with all I am but I just hate doing everything especially considering her dad's absent, I miss being able to be me and when I try and talk to people about it I'm made out to be a bad mum despite doing everything for her...
Couldn’t have worded it better myself. You’re doing great, it’s so hard 💜