We both work. Husband has a full time job, a part time job and a business to run. I have full time grad school and part time work. We do it at least every other day or daily. We’re so busy as well but I think it’s a matter of making the time for your spouse and for each other as much as we make time for our jobs, school and family. We have a toddler that takes a lot of our energy. Everyone is different on that as long as you both are okay with the frequency.
I have sex every 8 hours mate
Ha! It's rare we do it once a week. We also run our own company and have five kids.
We’ve gone our separate ways sort of. Before I moved out in October, we prob had sex once or twice every couple of months. Since I’ve moved out, it’s been 3x.
So you still have the relationship with him after separating and the sex life got better?
I can tell you from the girlfriends I have with little ones the sex is rare. They may be intimate 1 time a week if they’re lucky. Exhaustion comes into play.
For us, we actually make the time. It important for both of us to have some form of intimacy on a daily bases. It keeps us connected in a deeper level and allows us to face our challenges with our growing family.
Maybe once or twice a month right now? Between work and kids we are both soooo tired all the time. Feels like we talk about it often, we’re both up for it, and then one or both of us falls asleep before we actually get there. I’m so glad to have found this thread, though, I seriously didn’t realize this was a normal thing.
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