I was in the same spot so I went to my cousin who has three kids of her own I had on my registry a Pack n Play I decided not on a crib a stroller / car seat but my favorite thing of all was the bouncer it saved my life plenty of times and for when they get older a highchair which I did not even think of it first that was my cousin's idea
I absolutely love the backpack style diaperbags!! They’re supper easy to carry and don’t throw you off balance. PLUS if you’re like me then after about a week of wearing it a lot (we’re always on the go) you’ll get use to it and forget it’s there
Diaper bag- I have anchored east backpack style - from amazon. Love it.
Must haves- a good baby carrier. A wrap style to start (I have a cuddly wrap but there are lots of other good brands) with but eventually you’ll want a few styles like a structured one. I also loved having baby toys- like a lot of them. Mostly bought second hand.
Wubba nub pacifier, boppy pillow, and a weighted sleep sack is what i’ve lived by for my little one so far!!!! Those are the essentials that she LOVES . My girl (2 months old) sleeps through the night, 12 hours because of the weighted sleep sack! Highly recommend
My go to with my baby when I go do errands or just in general that I have to go things at home is my boba baby wrap she just loves being with me everywhere I go and it’s more one on one time
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