Sarah

Second Pregnancy and Career?

As my son reaches his first birthday I am giving more thought to my next pregnancy and how this will affect my career. When I returned to work after my maternity leave I gained much more responsibility and I am on a really good trajectory within my company. I'm scared that my next pregnancy will derail my career, or at the very least I will miss out on some opportunities for advancement. My husband is a SAHD so my career is very important to our financial sucess. Has anyone experienced this? Any words of wisdom or insight?
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How important is it to you to have kids close in age? Maybe give yourself a few years to get some momentum going at work.

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I'd like to ideally have them 3 years or less apart - my husband is in his mid-forties so we don't want to wait too long!

I was thinking the same as Taylor. What if you did wait another year???

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I think for sure we won't be pregnant this year, but I'm a planner and like to think ahead 😁

I say your son is 10 months. Maybe wait until after his 2nd birthday to try? Depending how okay you are with a 3 ish year age gap.

I say go for it! It’s easier honestly when they’re babies. I just had two little ones back to back while completing my masters. My hubby is also SAHD and so it was very tough on me but I did take a very abbreviated maternity leave and kept chugging along. I feel like the most important piece is communicating the extra needs you’ll have (emotional and otherwise) to your mans.

There’s never a bad time to have a baby, and you’ll never regret having one- but there are some times that are better than others so you need to consider your age, other aspects of your life, etc. Good luck!

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