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It Never Stops..

Was talking to one of my friends about having issues conceiving, and she told me that she’s expecting..not to hurt me or rub it in, but to let me know not to give up hope because they’ve been trying for years. I’m so incredibly happy for her of course, but every time I turn around I get a pregnancy announcement thrown in my face and it’s just another reminder of what my body won’t do for me..😞
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I totally get it. It’s hard. You feel your body hates you

100% know how you feel x

I completely get it. We have been trying for years (and keeping it private) and every pregnancy announcement is like a punch to the heart. It’s a reminder of the thing ur body won’t do. Just have to stay positive and remind yourself u are doing everything you can!

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I wish I was more conservative of who I told about our journey...

I love this app, it’s just what I needed to keep me going❤️ all the women on here are incredible! xx

Yip......all I can see is new babies and prams!!!🙈😢

Same here 😢

Please nobody take this post as you can’t share your baby journey. Of course you can; you’re excited and happy and in love with your little miracle. It doesn’t hurt us or make us mad that you post, it just reminds us of how sad we are that it isn’t us yet. Post your baby journey all you want to, we want to see you happy even if it hasn’t happened for us thus far!❤️

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Sorry for the essay

I hope everyone gets to be pregnant! Takes a long time for some... took me a while too after mis caring, mentally and physically, I found out I had negative blood type , and with that you need to take anti d shots to immune your blood cells for the babies bloodcells, possibly need to get an anti d shot to help fall pregnant so it doesn't attack the new production if you have old blood from periods or miscarriage.... so it's good to find out whT blood type you are first maybe it will help with conceiving... also there's this lube called concieve plus it helps some ppl fall pregnant... give a go looking it up maybe it will help... my brother and his wife are trying but I see it's hard for them too ... I feel for All of you I was like that too....one sister inlaw got pregnant then the other and they already had kids older ones I was happy for them but also tryd avoiding meetups as it felt very hard...dont give up hopefully will happen just remember to not be stressed and go with the flow

I know how you feel 😏it feels like everyone around is having children

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I know how u feel 😔 my friend just recently announced she just find out she is 5 weeks old and before my sis in law announced she having another baby 6 weeks old and 3 months ago my other sis in law had a baby if I go on my social media my friend posting they baby the recently give birth and I m just smiling and giving congrats and show how excited and happy m I but inside I m heartbroken and the worst part is I can't even tell anybody just keep it to myself and awww just so hard really 😞

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I know how you feel it’s the same for me as well 😔it hurts sometimes but then my husband keeps saying don’t worry if it’s meant to be from god it will be our turn soon. Have faith in Allah his is the best of all Planners 🙏🏽💜💕

Big hugs you! I hope it happens for you soon enough... my friend tried for so long and gave up then couple months later was pregnant... I think you got to not be too much in to it and let you mind and body at ease and it might happen

I think it always stings a little when it's not you in the situation. I completely understand what you mean. 3 of sisters were pregnant when I found out I had fertility issues. I always tell myself it will get easier!

Don't give up hope ♥️ Maybe it just hasn't been the right time yet

I’ve had at least 2 pregnancy announcements every month since I’ve been TTC (14months now) and it doesn’t get any easier. For my own sanity, I’ve had to block or mute these people from my social media because seeing their ever growing bump pics just makes me feel worse for myself

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