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3 years ago

Trying to stay strong

Going home today... without Damian 💔 trying not to cry, trying not to feel or think. It's so weird to be going home not pregnant and not with a baby in my arms. It's heartbreaking to have to just walk away from my lil teddy bear who was essentially a part of my body for months 💔💔
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last year

I get it. My daughter was born at 33 weeks in the nicu for a month. I remember just going home and sitting at the table pumping with tears running down my face. It is so hard! You’ll get into the habit of driving to the nicu every day or multiple times a day. It’s so sad being away from your baby but you just have to get through each day a day at a time and think each day is a day you are closer to bringing him home with you. ❤️ Feel free to message me if you ever need to talk.

last year

You’ll be all back together in no time and it will all be worth it , my twins was born 29 weeks, single pregnancys both born 31 and 32 weeks I don’t know any different all my babies are born early I can’t make it full term no idea why I just go into labour early I haven’t had anything else so Nicu and my babies not being home with me is my normal I’m used to it by now after 4 babies being the same I’m now pregnant again so I’ll be going through the same again , wish you all the best 🖤

2 years ago

I feel you. My baby boy was born at 38w3d but he had blood sugar issues then he was jaundice. He was in the NICU for 5 days. So I know how you feel

2 years ago

Omg I’m so sorry !!!

3 years ago

I’m sorry 😐 Hope you can find healing after this situation.

3 years ago

Our son was in the nicu for 24 days and was on oxygen for 11.5 months. If you ever just want another momma who has been there with medical stuff to vent, I’m here.

3 years ago

I had to do this with both my girls, it is sooo hard but ring whenever you feel the urge to, and remember he is in safe hands, they will ring you if they need you xx

3 years ago

💛💛💛 hope he comes home soon x

3 years ago

🙏🙏🙏🌷

3 years ago

So sorry to hear that! He is so beautiful. I hope he is ok and yourself too. I hope he will be home with you soon 💕🌟

3 years ago

Babygirl was born at 31 weeks and she stayed in the NICU for a month It was so hard I wasn’t able to see her everyday but she’s a healthy 17 month old now The drs and nurses took amazing care of her I’m so grateful for that

3 years ago

My baby boy was born at 27 weeks and stayed in the NICU for 3 months. I lived up there! It can get really tough no matter the amount of time being there. And leaving them for any amount of time is the hardest!! Just know that baby boy is getting the best care possible! He will come out stronger than ever and so will you♥️ The NICU can be so hard but it made me appreciate by sweet baby boys life that much more😌

3 years ago

I feel your pain so much! I was discharged from the hospital after 4 days and my NICU baby had no end date in sight. Driving home with an empty car seat and a quiet car is devastating. When my husband and I walked in the door, someone had left a “welcome home” baby balloon and we both started crying. Took a shower and went straight back to the hospital. She was released two weeks later and it was the happiest day ever 💚 Your baby is in the best place he can be right now, and when you finally get to take him home, it will be the greatest moment. NICU warriors hold a special place in your heart!!

3 years ago

Hey Abi I’m sorry you can’t bring Bubba home but Mr.Handsome just needs to have them keep a close eye I’m praying for a fast recovery and hope he gets to come home as soon as he is in the clear . Wish there was a way I could uplift you . Love and light

3 years ago

Hope he gets better and can come home soon ❤️

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3 years ago

I’m so sorry. We did this with my son just 9 months ago. It’s absolutely awful. My thoughts are with you ❤️

3 years ago

He’s a beautiful baby. You’re all in my prayers❤️

3 years ago

He is absolutely gorgeous. I hope he goes home with you soon❤️ stay strong?

3 years ago

I’m doing the same tomorrow babe :( I’m gutted. Hope you are ok xx

3 years ago

About to leave the hospital and I feel so sick to my stomach 💔

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3 years ago

So sorry you're going through this,I totally understand how you feel. It was so heart wrenching when I had to leave my girl in the pshu. Don't know the protocol during these times and I know you have another little at home but is the Nicu still open to parents 24hr and is there a way to extend the care for your little girl so you can spend more time with him. Thats the only thing that made me stop crying knowing I could see her whenever I wanted. It'll get better I promise

3 years ago

Thank you all. He's in the NICU for several things. It started out as just a blood sugar issue but now his breathing is unstable and his heartbeat has stopped twice.

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3 years ago

How is your baby doing

3 years ago

Awww stay strong Abi! Keyword TRY to rest up some. Damien is too adorable!

3 years ago

oh 😕 i remember you posting on one of my post...you said you had a rough pregnancy. I am very sorry Abi and i hope everything is okay with Damian? But i understand if you don't want to talk about it. Sending you love ❤❤❤❤❤

3 years ago

Awe I’m so sorry Abi! But he’s beautiful and he will be home with you soon! Sending you all the love and support ❤️

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