I think it's nice to not know for a change, and to keep it a surprise for both of us and our families. We're going gender neutral colours anyway so not necessary to know the gender. We're not a big fan of pink and blue as everyone does that, although there is nothing wrong with it, it's just a preferred opinion we share. We're moving house in a few weeks so need to save money really, most of the baby stuff will be gifts and reusable things our sisters have used already. I was eager to know if a Boy or Girl but we truly don't mind at all. As the baby is due on my aunties birthday(in heaven now) and the next day is my dad's, so either boy or girl we will be over the moon with. I'm so thankful and happy we've got a healthy growing baby and that everything is working out perfectly. 1 year ago my life was down the drain with depression&loneliness, no friends and just a horrible time with death coming to our family and been a nightmare. 1 year on my life has changed massively forever and I'll always be thankful for managing to pull through of what came over me. 💜💚. I never would have thought I'd have met the love of my life,moved in, and got a healthy baby on the way all within 8 months! It really shows you things DO get better!!