Pregnancy loss

i just wonder why things like this happen sometimes, hurts my heart 🥺 im sorry you have to go through this pain😔

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Thank you, it’s a struggle but I still have two small boys to take care of ...

I am so sorry!!! I lost a baby mid second trimester and I was in a fog for a good 6 months afterwards. Therapy helped me a ton. Hang in there ❤️❤️

Sorry to hear that hun 💔 Take time to mourn when you can because you need to. Nothing will take that pain away but it will get lighter. Perhaps therapy or a really really good friend could help you move through your grieving process.

Do you know why this happened ? I’m so sorry and so much love to you xx I lost at 18 weeks and take your time to grieve and surround your self with loved ones. Meditate and exercise and slowly you will heal xxx You will learn to be happy again but just take your time x xx

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No I have no idea what happened, I was just told that these things happen sometimes

I'm sorry for you loss.....i had a miscarriage at 7 weeks with my first in 2019. I had never been in a dark place like that before but time like they say heals pain. Take it easy...embrace what you feel don't try to fight it or hide it...it'll eat you up if you do and always...always hope for the best. I know iIt hurts i can only imagine what you're going through.... with time you'll will heal....it'll always be a part of you but you must choose to heal.

I’m sorry to hear this!! Was it a high risk pregnancy?

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Yeah it was

I truly am so sorry for your loss and my deepest condolences goes out to you. I pray for your healing 💕

Yes, Frankie 24w ... always stays with you. People dont understand ... find your own way to heal your heart 💔 I joined sands https://www.sands.org.uk/

My sister delivered her son still born at 37 weeks( a year ago on the 17). I watched the entire delivery and I’ll never forget her cry when she held him. I am so sorry. 💓 I can’t pretend to understand the pain & hurt. Sending my love.

So sorry about your lost 😢🙏🏼

Sending you lots of love so sorry for your loss 😢❤️

I lost one at 8 weeks the day after seeing it's little heartbeat and it was literally the most crippling heartache I've ever experienced. I can't imagine going through that much of a pregnancy and experiencing this. Mine was over a year ago and it still hurts so bad sometimes. I constantly think about things I did that could have caused it. I'm so sorry *hug*

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Thank you so much for sharing that with me

I think it's important to remember you never have to "get over it" like some people may make you feel.

You are not alone 🤍 your baby felt every moment of love and warmth and safety you provided to her! There is no timeline you need to stick to for what healing looks like. I’m 6 months post-miscarriage and my husband has felt surprise at the strength my emotions can still hold. But it’s a life you loved and dreamed of. Allow those feelings.

Oh so sorry, sending love. But it’s good that you talk about it and share it with like-minded women. Bless you 🙏

I lost my son at 37 weeks along last year. There were times of feeling hate and anger, numbness, excruciating sadness and sometimes I feel ok for a little. If you need to talk I am here. I am so sorry. ❤️

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Can I ask what happened, or is too painful? Sometimes I feel better when I talk about my miscarriage, but sometimes I'd rather not. 37 weeks is a big deal, I'm so sorry for your incredible loss.

I chose to have a home birth and the midwife was not qualified. She told me to start taking 4000 mg of alfalfa and unfortunately the pills where a much higher dose than she thought and I was actually taking 8000 mg. I started taking them at 35 weeks and one day I felt awful and started crying uncontrollably saying to my husband I think the baby is dead. We called the midwife and she told me to just lay down and drink water and do kick counts. I felt no kicks and she told me to drink 30 oz of juice and try again, again no kicks. She said it would be fine to just wait for my appointment and I did wait unfortunately and didn’t go to the hospital like my gut was telling me to. I felt pressure and though that was movement but it was just his body floating in me. I went to the appointment with my husband and they tried for 30 minutes to hear a heartbeat but we heard nothing at that point my heart was in my throat and I was weeping. The midwife told me maybe her machine was wrong and I shou

2 years in October we lost our son at 20 weeks, had 2 miscarriages since then.all I can say is I’m so sorry, the loss is unimaginable, people around you can be very supportive and sorry for you but for you it feels like your world has stopped and it feels unfair that everyone else’s is just carrying on as normal. People who haven’t experienced it have no idea, from the moment your pregnant you imagine your bump,birth, names, Xmas birthdays...your life with your baby and to have all of that robbed from you is just horrendous 😢 please talk to someone and don’t keep it bottled up, please inbox me if you need to chat. Sending so much love and strength xx

It’s ok to get help as in a therapist or even medication to help. And take the time to grieve and heal.

So sorry for your loss