So today I got placed with a newborn infant by CPS. She is 2 days old and I need some advice. The youngest baby I’ve been around has been about six-eight months old so their newborn stuff is all new to me! Any tips or advice would be so helpful. Please! Thank you!
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Trust your intuition is honestly the best advice. But ....Put the baby to sleep flat on their back on a semi firm service (mattress) with no pillows or blankets. Do NOT put alcohol on the umbilical cord although some will advise it. Don’t over dress, babies overheat easily. Get a bouncer or a swing & a boppy. Have the baby sleep in your bedroom until 6 months + ... good luck you got this!

All of this. 👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽
We’d always go down the checklist at that age when my son would cry. Is his diaper dirty, is he hungry and always make sure he has an extra layer than you’d wear. You can’t over feed them at that age. If they eat they are hungry. My son would eat 2 oz every couple of hours, but he was also a heavy eater.

Baby’s cry and that’s okay, your doing a great job, and are amazing person. Bottle, burp, diaper & sleep is all they need oh and you, they have never been alone. Swaddle, if they cry keep swaddling they will like it. They don’t like complete silence so white noise, or tv sounds is good when you put them to sleep

To add monitor gas If they are gassy or uncomfortable they can be hard to settle

Great advice ladies! Totally agree with all the comments so far. Make sure you burp her plenty too, that will help avoid gas. Spend time with her on your bare chest, just wearing a sports bra maybe - this “skin time” can be so important, to make her feel secure and give her the same heartbeat, breathing sounds she was so used to in the womb.

Thank you all for such great ideas. It happened so suddenly and we were a little overwhelmed. So far my main concern is sleep. My anxiety is very high on letting myself sleep because I want to make sure she’s okay, breathing, so on. But I know that slowly that will ease up, hopefully!!

I would recommend getting Muslim swaddles or the nestedbean swaddle (this one is the best ) white noise, black out curtains for the day naps, and colic drops or gripe water for gas

I would sleep on my back with the newborn on my chest (skin-to-skin) if you’re trying to get enough sleep! There are still a lot of wakings, but i felt it was less stressful that way.

When my baby had colic we would take turns walking around the house with her at night. I would put her in a wrap on my chest and that seemed to help. On the really tough nights sometimes I would have to walk up and down the stairs or go on the elliptical for a bit to sooth her. I think it was the rhythmic motion. Good luck!

All great advice. Just wanted to add that what you’re feeling is what every new mother feels, however they got their little bundle of joy! You got this!

I would read up on the fourth trimester.
https://sarahockwell-smith.com/2012/11/04/the-fourth-trimester-aka-why-your-newborn-baby-is-only-happy-in-your-arms/

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