It really does depend on location as well. There’s no “one size fits all” type of racism/colourism. I’m not American so can’t speak for racist experiences within America (though from what I see on social media it can be very blatant). Whereas somewhere else - like S’pore where I used to live - it’s more subtle, like just omitting minority groups from certain spaces just by manipulating the language. The experiences between diasporas and main/homeland groups is also different. Asian-Americans for instance will have different experiences with racism compared to mainland Chinese for example. From what I do know of being born and raised in the Eastern hemisphere, there is the mentality - possibly having been passed down from colonialism - that “fair/white” is better. It’s why a lot of face creams sold in India and China contain bleaching agents to “whiten” skin.
I want to start by saying that what this peer said is not even historically supported. It sounds like a biased opinion mixed with some emotion. Their level of success does not make them any less oppressed and why are we comparing their oppression??😮💨🧘🏾♀️ As far as classifying them as POC, I don’t know if I have that power. My understanding would be that they definitely classify as BIPOC, (I would consider them more “indigenous” than of color, but that may be a personal bias. There are MANY East Asians that have some melanin in their skin. And many East Asian people refer to themselves as ‘yellow’ when given the option to choose a color…and yellow is most certainly of more color than White.
Yes, they’re considered POC. Asian covers a very broad and diverse group of people, but a lot of Westerners use it to just refer to East Asian people. I’m mixed Asian (part Singapore Chinese + North Indian) and spent a lot of my life in Sri Lanka and Singapore. Lots of South and SouthEast Asian are darker/brown-skinned (eg Tamils, Malays) and do face racial discrimination, even in more diverse countries like Singapore. And if you want to talk about abuse, look at how white folks treated/treat anyone that looks Chinese in light of the covid pandemic.