My friends just installed a nanny cam, which really surprised me as her nanny is lovely and the kids adore her. However, the more women I speak to, the more it seems like this is a totally normal thing to do. I think it starts the relationship off on the wrong foot, I wouldn't hire anyone I didn't fully trust to look after my kids and don't feel comfortable spying. BUT, the 'mom guilts' kicking in that I'm being irresponsible not having one?! Am I being too trusting? Would love your advice!