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3 years ago

Pregnant with my rainbow!

Hello everyone !! I’m Heidi. In 2010 I had my first pregnancy. I miscarried at ten weeks. In 2018 I had my second pregnancy. I had mmc and a blighted ovum and baby did not grow passed six weeks. That loss physically almost killed me due to a lack of care from medical doctors. Anyway I am now nine weeks with my third baby. I’m sure you can understand why I am so nervous. I pray every night but I wake up crying sometimes. And sometimes I wake up thinking I’m covered in blood. I’m looking for people to reassure me. I’ve had two ultrasounds already. First one was at six weeks. The second nine weeks one day. Baby is growing and has strong heartbeat. Just want encouragement.
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I’ve had 4 miscarriages and currently pregnant with my first rainbow 🌈 baby 30+4day

last year

Baby is fine and you will be fine

last year

Congratulations mama ❤ I also lost my baby (1st pregnancy) and have 2 more kidd. It's gonna be ok mama....take it easy (or atleast try) baby feels what mama feels so keep urself busy try painting arts n crafts like a color by numbers or play online scrabble....go for short walks and stay hydrated. Get hooked on a good Netflix series like Grey's Anatomy which has 17 Ling seasons (great show if u like medical) or Shitts Creek which is so hilarious I've watched the whole series 3 times.

2 years ago

I totally understand! I had two miscarriage 2018 and then in 2020. It crushed my husband and me. Then we got pregnant in May 2021 without knowing it until July 2021! I thought I had my period in June, but it wasn’t after all. Now, I am at 28w 1 d with a healthy baby girl!! We are so relieved and grateful. Don’t give up. Miracles can happen.

2 years ago

I lost my third at 6w and when we conceived 4 I was so nervous 💗. I ended up writing down a bunch of scriptures and looking at them everyday and they brought me peace. He's super rowdy wild healthy 3yo boy today 😜❤️🙌

2 years ago

I am also pregnant with my rainbow baby! I had a miscarriage in the beginning of the year at 5 weeks and then I also had a MMC blighted ovum at 10 weeks in April. I am now 13 weeks and baby bug looks great! I understand being nervous….I get nervous anytime I go to the bathroom or have an ultrasound. Here if you wanna talk! ☺️

2 years ago

I understand dear it's just you afraid I lost my 1st baby in 21 week and second in 3 weeks and with 3rd she is 28 months old now.my entire pregnancy I was so worried could not enjoy it.trust god and have regular chack up but don't overthink as it is not good for the baby you are paranoid from the past experiences but talk to your baby that helped mei really believes she heard me from 3rd week ok pregnancy

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2 years ago

Thank you dear my baby is now nine weeks old !! I’m so in love with her

2 years ago

Congratulations on your rainbow baby momma. She’s so precious.

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2 years ago

Thank you!!

2 years ago

I'm so very sorry everything youve been through and I admire your strength and courage through it all...You got this just try to reduce your stress as much as possible and keep in mind less stress you put on yourself the less stress with be on your baby. Babies are fragile to begin with and just make sure you take the best care of yourself physically and equally as important mentally. But seriously take it easy on yourself all around and find ways to relax yourself and do things that make you happy and decompress.

2 years ago

I’ve had 26 babies 24 pregnancies only 4 my babies were born alive I miscarried 13 times before I gave birth to my oldest son at 30 weeks than had more miscarriages and than had my identical twin sons at 24weeks one survive one died… more miscarriages and I had my youngest son at 34weeks than few more miscarriages and I had my daughter at 28 weeks.. I have always wanted my own kids and a big family doctors told me I’d never be able to have kids but I have 4 health kiddos It’s scary and hurts the heart to lose a baby you fall in love with and the worries will always be there I knew the risks of getting pregnant and kept pushing and pushing for my dream of being a mom so don’t give up hun I know the hurt you feel and I’m here if you need some to talk to

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2 years ago

Thanks I gave birth May 25th

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@Angeliea 24 pregnancies that's a crazy amount, I lost 6 out of 7 pregnancies, I couldn't handle the pain after that. My heart really goes out to you, the Goddess is watching over you with your beautiful babies xxx

2 years ago

Congratulations!!!! I’m so so happy to see this!!!!

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2 years ago

Thank you !!

2 years ago

Congratulations

2 years ago

Thank you

2 years ago

Hope baby comes soon hun x

2 years ago

Congratulations you’ll be fine, totally understand how you’re feeling, suffered a miscarriage at 20 weeks just had my Rainbow baby in April. Sending my prayers and love 🤗❤️

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2 years ago

Hi hun. I understand what you're going through. I had a miscarriage at 11 weeks in 2019 and 6 months later I got pregnant again and I was a nervous wreck. I thought after my 12 week scan I'd be fine but a few days later I worried again. 3rd trimester I had to be monitored due to lack of movements as I had an anterior placenta. All I did was worry throughout and in hindsight I wish I had enjoyed my pregnancy more. Try and keep busy yo occupy your mind. It seems a long time but trust me it will fly by. Deep breath, relax. X

2 years ago

Hey guys I’m due Tuesday so far she’s not here!! But hopefully soon !!

2 years ago

Thank you, this post gives me hope ♥️

2 years ago

Update when lil lady is here x

2 years ago

Yep u did hun how u feeling x

2 years ago

Congrats mama you made it!!!

2 years ago

I didn’t expect this post to gain so much attention but I’m proud to say I will be 36 weeks as of Tuesday !!

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2 years ago

Congrats hun!

2 years ago

Congratulations I had 3 miscarriages before my current pregnancy with no living children yet. It’s hard

2 years ago

I’m nearly there !!!

2 years ago

22 weeks !!!

3 years ago

Update : I am now 16 weeks with my baby girl !! She is doing amazing so far !!

3 years ago

I’m also pregnant with my rainbow baby, I understand how you feel, I pray for you, all will be well in Jesus name Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾

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3 years ago

🙏🙏

3 years ago

I will pray for you tonight😘

3 years ago

First of all congratulations on your beautiful rainbow. The nerves u have and the anxiety and the real want and need to have your baby is natural. I have personally suffered 4 losses myself. Medical neglect were iv been left with my baby for 4 weeks after my loss inside and almost had a huge infection. I will keep my fingers crossed for u babe I really really hope u get this rainbow and I wish u all the best and my inbox is open anytime I’m now currently 25 weeks pregnant with my little girl every scan every midwife appointment I shake and every good sign I have I cry I cry my eyes out. Iv had some very vivid dreams that it’s all gone wrong but it hasn’t staying positive and keeping my head up has kept me going. Please please remember that everything will come good u are now out the 12 weeks as Iv noticed this is a few weeks old this post and that is amazing and a huge mile stone keep going beautiful lady and try to enjoy your beautiful rainbow growing inside u xxx

3 years ago

@Heidi congratulations hun and all u can do is take it day by day try not to worry it is easier said the. Done but it looks like u having a good pregnancy just stay strong and try not to stress out hun xxx

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3 years ago

@Heidi ur so welcome hun just keep being strong and not stress urself out how r u feeling so far hun xx Here if u ever wat to chat xx

3 years ago

Thank you

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3 years ago

Congratulations yall got this

3 years ago

I’m also pregnant with my rainbow baby, I’m currently 10 weeks and 1 day. I had a miscarriage at the end of July at 5 weeks.

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3 years ago

You got this

3 years ago

I Know The Feeling I’m Pregnant Now With My Rainbow Baby 13 Weeks 4 Days 💕 The Second Trimester Seems To Be Going By Quicker Than The 1st .

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3 years ago

I’m 13 weeks now

3 years ago

Hi I have had a miss carriage had nightmares before it happened never give up and believe if it ment to be it will be I got pregnant 1 year after and now have a healthy baby girl 10 months 

3 years ago

I am going to keep you in my heart and thoughts!! You will have your baby happy and healthy, I am very excited for you!! Xx

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3 years ago

Thanks I’m 11 weeks !!

3 years ago

I’m 14 weeks with my rainbow baby. I’m an anxious wreck! I lost my first at 6 weeks to a molar pregnancy, and my second in January this year at 12 weeks. I have a good feeling about this one! All will be okay! We deserve it ❤️

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3 years ago

I’m 11 weeks and three days and easing up a little on concern. But still nervous

3 years ago

I feel you I’m 6 weeks with my rainbow baby scare nervous and excited I’m keeping my self positive that everything is going to be ok

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3 years ago

Let’s get ready for these babies

3 years ago

You will be fine and so will I! I’m now just shy of 11 weeks !! 💜💜

3 years ago

I had a miscarriage in June thought I was 11 weeks but I measured up at 9weeks but now I am pregnant again and I am nearly 14 weeks everything is going great xx good luck with yours xx

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3 years ago

Thank you

3 years ago

Im totally understand you, I had 3 miscarriage in a row before my rainbow baby (now 1 month old). Miscarriages are so devastating and leave you with some anxiety because you never now if you are going to lose your baby again 💔 and pretty much you are convinced that its going to happen again. Even in my third trimester I had that anxiety... I know its hard but try to forget that bad experiences and enjoy your pregnancy as your 1st time, I didn’t do it because I was pretty sure that I was going to lost my baby again and it didn’t happen (thanks god 🙏🏻) but I would really liked to enjoy my pregnancy and tell everyone that I was pregnant and take pictures, baby parties (shower, gender reveal, etc) So leave that anxiety and enjoy it. Also ask your OB for progesterone and baby aspirin some times that helps

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3 years ago

Ohh and I almost forget it... CONGRATULATIOOOOONS 🥳 !!!! 👏🏻

3 years ago

Congratulations praying for healthy pregnancy and healthy baby for you 🙏🏾

3 years ago

Congratulations I hope you have a beautiful baby.

3 years ago

Congrats Momma ❤️🎉 hoping for a healthy pregnancy for you!

3 years ago

Congrats on your current pregnancy! 💕 I'm so sorry to hear about your loses. It's one of the most disappointing and devastating experiences!! I also unfortunately had two miscarriages before having my baby back in August. I also had so much anxiety when pregnant with him. The nights leading up to each new OB appointment consisted of nightmares where I lost the baby and I would wake up convinced it happened again. I don't think I have to tell you how much that sucked!! But as the baby continued to grow, that part of my anxiety lessened and I was able to get more excited about my little one. You can get through it, though it may not be easy! Have you considered talking to someone? I've found having a postpartum counselor the last month or so has helped me. It might be worth exploring if you think it would help you cope. Wishing you all the best!!

3 years ago

Hello angel! Just wanted to let you know you're not alone, and it's so normal to feel how you're feeling! I lost my first pregnancy in a missed miscarriage at the end of 2018 at 14 weeks, then my second at the end of October 2019, another missed miscarriage. I came to the conclusion my body simply could not carry a healthy baby & got myself in a real state of depression about it - then came March 2020, I took a test and this time round the positive result didn't make me happy, i felt absolutely terrified, I'd already predicted the same outcome and assumed I'd miscarry my 3rd child after just overcoming the heartbreak of the first two - fast forward 37 weeks & baby is a little boy! Expected anyday in the next 3 week's & I've had (such a long but) low risk pregnancy! It's so normal to worry & it will only get worse as time goes on as we love those little lives so much more than our own already, but stay calm and try not to stress yourself❤

3 years ago

Let’s keep praying God got you this on just believe on God ,heartbeat is strong you got this mama.

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3 years ago

I know it must be hard but just know if you made it this far you must be a strong woman. Then, you got this! It may feel like days feel like weeks but knowing each day you wake up healthy & alive is the 1st step into making sure you're baby is too.. each day is a blessing. So embrace it! 💞

3 years ago

Praying for you and baby ❤️🌈

3 years ago

Congrats! I feel your worries. We lost our baby at 4 weeks in June (on my bday) and got pregnant with our rainbow baby in July. I am now 16 weeks. Hoping yours goes good!

3 years ago

Congratulations!! Get a home Doppler you can hear the heart beat whenever you are worried it really helped me in between my appointments. It helped me especially before I started to feel her kick all the time I used it all time. I’m 35 weeks now!

3 years ago

Girl, I Got You In My Prayers 🙏🏾

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3 years ago

Thank you

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