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1 year ago

Dealing with pregnancy alone

I know crying during pregnancy is not good but I can’t help myself. I always thought I would be the girl to get married and have kids and have a beautiful pregnancy but things took a different turn and I have to accept it. But what is hard to accept is that lonely feeling where no one checks up on you and I catch myself begging (I know, don’t shame me) my baby daddy to love me and to take care of me. I feel like I’m just a disappointment and I find myself stressed, super tired from working a full time job, alone, depressed, and just losing myself. I feel like I’m not the funny outgoing girl no more, I’m more serious and just shy. I’m working on bettering my mental health, I’m open on spiritual awakening as well so if any single mom recommended ANYTHING please let me know (please don’t be rude, I’m literally such a cry baby)
Dealing with pregnancy alone

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1 year ago

Girl I almost broke down in tears reading this bc I’m going through the same exact thing! It’s so hard bc life doesn’t go how we plan it sometimes but I struggle with the same things. Here I am on my third child and I’m still not settled down and in happy loving relationship. This pregnancy opened my eyes a lot. I NEVER healed just looking for love where it’s not, and giving too much of myself and that’s why I continued to make the same decisions that made my life harder. Now I’m in this pregnancy alone. But it’s gonna be ok God always makes a way! We gonna be okay mama! Keep pushing. Never beg a man to love you. You’re too good for that and too strong for that! I wish you blessings mama!!

1 year ago

Same. I’m completely alone no one checks on me or ask how I’m feeling. Nothing. Nada. All on my own. My abuser The person I slept with made sure I knew he wanted nothing to do with the baby by kicking me out his flat...blocking me with no means of ever contacting each other again . Man it’s hard....I’m in therapy and have my own flat now...but it’s never easy and I’m learning each day...how to cope and find some solace....to be the best mum that I can be

1 year ago

I was a single mom with my first. It's hard at first, but it gets easier. To be completely honest, (I am married now, with two other kids and an amazing husband) it is SO much easier to parent by yourself LOL.

1 year ago

So sorry you are struggling, I went through pregnancy alone & with corona too it’s so hard. Be gentle with yourself because it’s ALOT! Plus hormones etc, it’s totally natural to feel all those things. Just know you can do this - I really believe life wouldn’t give us tests we couldn’t get through so have faith a higher power is giving you this gift of life to help you in ways you just might not be able to see right now.... good luck ✨🙌🏼✨ xxx

1 year ago

Hi! I’m going through the same thing right now and although my baby’s father is coming around “ sort of” i still have the mentality that he won’t be there. I’ve been doing it alone throughout my whole pregnancy and I’m currently 31 weeks. In the beginning i would cry nonstop! And not just sobbing but hysterically cry. I couldn’t believe that someone would just not care. Forget about me but your baby! It took me a while to get used to things but instead so much better now. Don’t get me wrong i still cry from time to time but it’s so much better than it was in the in beginning. God gave us this blessing for a reason. We may not understand it right now but in the long run we will. Try to stay positive as much as you can. Also, it’s okay to cry. We’re humans. Soon you’ll have your little one and he or she will fill up your world with happiness. If you ever need to talk you’re more than welcomed to reach out to me. I may not have the perfect words to say but sometimes just venting helps.

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