I had a miscarriage this weekend

Hi Miranda, I had a miscarriage 4 weeks and everybody said “lucky it wasn’t farther “. Doesn’t matter how far you are with your pregnancy it hurt so much. It was really painful. I just wanted to say that I hear you and sending you my sympathy. I am now 8 weeks pregnant and sooo worried so I totally understand. This will be my first x

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Thank you😘 I hope you will have a happy pregnancy soon Xx

Thank you I just feel like no one understands and everyone keeps saying you can try again. I get they don’t know what to say probably But I would rather hear nothing at all. But congratulations and I hope everything goes well for you. Prayers for a healthy baby and pregnancy 🙏🏽

I’m so sorry to hear.I know what you’re going through.I was 15 weeks when I lost my baby.Baby passed at around 13-14 weeks.I was traumatized in fear from the longest.I would cry every day.It never gets easier.It only gets better to cope with as time passes.I basically gave birth to my baby and after I decided to get my baby cremated.Only piece of my baby I have left.It makes me sad all the time honestly.I lost my baby back in March of this year and it’s like everyone forgot and when I bring it up it’s like no one cares.Everyone thinks it’s so easy of trying again but people like me are struggling to conceive again.It’s a real thing.And it’s not easy I know.I’m sorry you are going through this really am.I’m here if you need support,kindness and just a friend.I’m only a message away.

I’ve had this before. It’s normal to feel this way. I promise. I don’t think some people understand the amount of pain you are really going through and how attached you have already gotten to that child.

I hear you.. I am so sorry for your loss hun. I was 10 week in July when I lost my baby.. it was hands down the hardest thing I have ever been through! And because I have a LB 3 next week people were saying your so lucky thou because you have Oz, yeah I’m lucky to have him but I have also just lost another baby!! I feel is as women feel it because we are the ones it happens to, we are the ones carrying the baby and having the symptoms and each day loving this little bean more and more then BOOM gone like they were never there.. if you ever want to message me hun feel free, I’m always here for anyone who needs me to listen xxx

This time last year I booked a private scan I should of been 11 weeks booked as my 12 weeks one was just after Xmas and I wanted to share our joy over the Xmas period to family , scan showed I had a missed miscarriage baby had stopped growing at 7 weeks I was devastated , I also had children but didn’t make the pain less still hurt loosing my baby I was excited for .... roll on I’m currently now 35 weeks pregnant with my baby boy and although I won’t forget my angel baby there is hope you can try again and have a healthy pregnancy , sorry your going through such a sad time dosent make it easier life is cruel xx

Keep your head up, mama! I completely understand your hurt. I was 4 weeks when I miscarried with my first baby. It was the hardest thing I have ever faced, and everyone basically acted like I was over dramatic because “it could have been worse”. I have read so many books from mamas that have suffered loss, and miscarriage is HARD at EVERY stage! Do not let anyone tell you different. Don’t feel guilty for being angry, jealous, upset, whatever you are feeling. You need to grieve and you deserve that. Message me any time if you need anything♥️ Sending tons of love and hugs your way!

I’m so sorry to hear this. I have a little boy who is now 5, last year I fell pregnant but lost my baby at 7 weeks and was honestly the hardest thing I have ever been through. I felt so lost and out of place. Luckily my husband was super supportive and helped by sharing his feelings with me. But nobody can understand the pain unless they have been through it. I still felt like I lost a baby even though I was only 7 weeks along. It was a very much wanted baby but time has made it easier. I am blessed to now have a 14 week old girl but I will never forget my second baby I lost x sending hugs your way! X

I’m so very sorry. I had a miscarriage at 8 weeks and know your sadness. Let yourself grieve, it’s a big loss. The pain and sadness will not be this intense forever. Sending hugs to you, and know you are not alone! 🌷

I’m sorry that we all had to go through this. This is not easy but it makes me feel a little better knowing I’m not alone. My husband is very supportive and has been non stop by my side. I just wake up every morning feeling sadness and I have to be strong for my 4 year old. I just don’t feel okay right now. I hope as time goes on I get better. I just want to say thank you to every one of you for your kind words. I truly appreciate it 💙💗

I’m so sorry for the pain that you’re going through. Just know that there are others out there who understand that you are in pain. You aren’t alone.

Im so sorry for you. I lost my daughter at 21 weeks 5 years ago i think about her everyday.

I had 2 miscarriages before I had my daughter. Ppl don't like talking about this topic for some reason. I think that it should be something that's talked about more often. I never knew how common it was until it happened to me. I'm sorry you're going through this.

I’m so sorry mama. I went through a miscarriage at 11 1/2 weeks in May. Unless you’ve been through it before, you won’t know the pain of going through a situation like this. We got pregnant again 8 weeks later and I’ve emotionally been a little crazed this time around, and stressed over every little thing. The comments about ‘at least you have one’ or ‘at least you know you can get pregnant’ really are no help or support to women going through this type of thing.

Im so sorry for your lost 😢.. Some people don't understand the pain you goin thru unless they go thru it .. I know what it feels like to have miscarriages very devastating ..

Losing my firstborn was one of the worst days of my life. There is no “atleast” it sucks period. I’m sorry you are going through what you are going through. What helped me was writing a letter to her and prayer and seeing a therapist(I ended up going through terrible depression). If you ever need to talk don’t hesitate to write me❤️

I am so sorry for your loss. I had a stillbirth at 37 weeks in Oct. I can promise you. I know exactly what you’re going through. If you’d like please feel free to message me 💙

I lost 1st baby during the 7 weeks. Everyone told me to at least you can try again then I had my daughter exactly a year later from miscarriage date and everyone said at least you have your daughter but I hate it bc my angel still was my child. I even had a girl tell me before I had my daughter I wasn't really a mom bc I lost my child and never birth the child so it DIDNT COUNT I snapped off I was so mad and hurt for someone to say that. I'm here for you. I had absolutely no one. My mother cussed me literally morning after my DNC if it wasnt for my husband I would have never made it through. I'm here for you prayers

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Wow, what was the point of that girl even saying that?

Bc she thinks she better than me and she even said she was more mature bc she was married and had a kid then I got married and had my daughter and she always trying to act better than us and she jelous bc she has a son and wants a daughter and I had a girl. The girl has lost a child but never talks about it and I talk about my child She just mad bc I have stuff she wants and she jelous and thinks I'm jelous of her when she had nothing I want

You’re not alone in this. As you can see - so many of us have been through this. After an ectopic pregnancy and miscarriage I’ve heard all the ridiculous statements. Sending lots of hugs xx

Miranda I’m so sorry for the pain you are going through! I haven’t experienced this but I can only imagine what you are going through. You are in every right to feel your emotions and take your time to heal. If you need someone to talk to I am here

Sorry for your loss 💞

So sorry mama!!! I had trouble conceiving and when I did finally, at 8 weeks we lost the baby. I was devastated. I have a boom I wrote concerning this because I needed people to understand what it feels like to lose regardless if you have no kids or several already! A loss is a loss! I’m so sorry my love

Exactly the same thing happened to me at the same weeks. Almost a year to the day too. I can’t believe ppl have said “at least.....” it’s a devastating experience, I remember just sobbing out of the blue for weeks. None of the people I knew would talk to me about it and when I brought it up, they changed the subject. The only person who understood (except my husband) was a friend who I knew had also miscarried. She was a life saver for me. It does get easier tho and I’m pregnant again now with only a few weeks left to go. U’re stronger than u think and we’re all here if u need support - there r groups just for those of us who have lost.

So sorry to hear! Sending my love to you❤️

I’m so sorry for your loss. Lost two myself then had a baby boy born with 3 heart defects. Pregnancy has always been scary for me but I know in my heart when your ready you will try again. Try to have patience for those who say the wrong thing or just don’t understand, but don’t you dare blame yourself. You are amazing and you are not alone. I thank everyone for their courage and bravery talking about their experiences here. It does help to talk about it and to helps to heal.

Sorry for your loss 🙏🏾