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1 year ago

No heartbeat

Well...Monday did not go as planned. They couldn’t find a heartbeat or any sign of life. I go back on Friday to see if there are any changes but if not I will have to schedule a D&C. Any advice on how to get thru this is greatly appreciated 💔
No heartbeat

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1 year ago

I had a missed miscarriage last oct and went for a medically managed miscariage to pass it so was awake and not pleasant as sat didnt work so had to go back monday. I was alone due to covid when they told me no heartbeat as was an ovary scan due to an embreo that grew lrge so was not expecting that. That was through IVF. I am now 17 weeks again IVF and find myself back in that chair alone being told over and over. You find ways to try and accept it and not move on but move forward but i still struggle daily with the loss. Also it didnt hit me for about 3-4 weeks after then i just broke. Just make sure you talk to someone and allow yourself to grieve properly xx

1 year ago

I want updates from you ladies, this is so scary and sad to hear. How are you? How do you feel? If you guys just want someone to vent at or listen send me a chat. Ill just be an ear if thats what you want. ❤️

1 year ago

I’m so sorry. I went through this in 2018. Truth is it gets easier with time, though you never really forget. Give yourself enough time to grieve and know that it’s not your fault. I pray it’s good news when you go check again. Sending love and light

1 year ago

Oh girl...I had the same thing happen to me in September. Personally i believe we never truly get over death, I think we accept it and carry on. First, acknowledge your baby. This may sound weird, but it helped me. Give it a name and thank it for being with you for as long as it was. The book the miscarriage map is really helpful. I would read it. I also found journaling really effective. And sharing my story too. Also, let yourself grieve. Cry as much and as long as you need to. I know you feel as though you may not make it. I know you feel as though you may crumble and I know this pain. It’s unimaginable hurt and frustration. And I know that when people say they are so sorry (even when they truly mean it, it doesn’t help) You will get through this. I am so sorry!! If you need up talk. I’m here❤️❤️❤️❤️

1 year ago

So sorry for your news! This happened to me twice before I had my beautiful daughter. It turns out i fell pregnant with her about 2 days after a D&C (don’t ask me how, but she is a miracle). Keep up hope 😘 x

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